Sibling misinforming about sick parent

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, people on DCUM must all have these perfect families where no one ever does anything shady and you must be crazy to think that someone could ever do something so terrible. It is awfully nice to sit from that privileged vantage point.

In the real world, shady shit goes down all the time. People act crazy when it comes to end of life and money. Who knows what game your sibling is playing at. If you haven't ever done anything to obstruct care for your parent, why would your sibling prevent you from knowing what is going on? That is obviously a red flag. It sounds like you may have to let this go if you aren't willing to wage a legal battle.

+10000 OP here. Wow, some people are really naive, so I appreciate the helpful (non-naive!) responses, including this one, PP. Yes, sibling already went through parent's jewelry and belongings. That is a done deal. I don't really want anything, but the idea that sibling landed parent in the hospital to begin with (perfectly possible, unfortunately) is disgusting and unnerving. Sibling knows that sibling is guilty, which is my best guess for the crazy behavior on the part of the sibling. I wish there more I could do for my parent, given the awful circumstances. I am assuming some of the early PPs must most certainly be medical doctors trained with geriatrics as their specialty, since they "know so much". Who knew there were so many on DCUM? :sarcasm: Forgive me, but laughter is rare these days; so thank you again for your support. Anyone that has support is welcome to chime in.

[Anonymous]

I think for the most part you've gotten very good feedback, OP - withput details about the backstory and exactly what your concerns are and why, this is probably as good as it gets.