How to snag a rich man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

Make sure you make it clear, like you do here, that you're a complete asshole and your wife will work for every penny you give her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

This sums it up perfectly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

Make sure you make it clear, like you do here, that you're a complete asshole and your wife will work for every penny you give her.

Hahaha seriously. I am 25 and fairly certain I fit every description. Nothing on earth could compel me to sign on for life with such a loser. I suspect other women feel the same which is why this sad little dude is still single and "looking"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

Make sure you make it clear, like you do here, that you're a complete asshole and your wife will work for every penny you give her.

Hahaha seriously. I am 25 and fairly certain I fit every description. Nothing on earth could compel me to sign on for life with such a loser. I suspect other women feel the same which is why this sad little dude is still single and "looking"

NP. Being 25 and single ain't that great either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

Make sure you make it clear, like you do here, that you're a complete asshole and your wife will work for every penny you give her.

Hahaha seriously. I am 25 and fairly certain I fit every description. Nothing on earth could compel me to sign on for life with such a loser. I suspect other women feel the same which is why this sad little dude is still single and "looking"

NP. Being 25 and single ain't that great either.

NP. It's fun to be 25 and single. But to be 40+ and fantasizing about people 20 years younger? Sad sad sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

NP here. I didn't marry rich. It was never my goal. But I've observed how this goes. You are the first wife. As are the wives of the other guys at the firm. The second wives are usually the trophy wives. Men get older and realize (because they are rich) they can date younger women. By that point, they realize it requires more work to date an equal. They also get a taste of the admiration and adulation they get from a younger, less intellectually ambitious women. They enjoy the feeling of always being the knowledgeable, wise one. So they go for the attractive woman who isn't entirely stupid but is certainly not their intellectual equal. It's easier for them that way. And by that point, they've learned from their experience with the first wife, the first wife being the one they met in college/grad school/law school, the one that saw them through the difficult years of carving out a career, the one that essentially helped build the wealth they now use to attract a younger trophy wife.

I've seen it happen. Driven men start out with driven women, but when those driven men "arrive," they ditch the driven women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

NP here. I didn't marry rich. It was never my goal. But I've observed how this goes. You are the first wife. As are the wives of the other guys at the firm. The second wives are usually the trophy wives. Men get older and realize (because they are rich) they can date younger women. By that point, they realize it requires more work to date an equal. They also get a taste of the admiration and adulation they get from a younger, less intellectually ambitious women. They enjoy the feeling of always being the knowledgeable, wise one. So they go for the attractive woman who isn't entirely stupid but is certainly not their intellectual equal. It's easier for them that way. And by that point, they've learned from their experience with the first wife, the first wife being the one they met in college/grad school/law school, the one that saw them through the difficult years of carving out a career, the one that essentially helped build the wealth they now use to attract a younger trophy wife.

I've seen it happen. Driven men start out with driven women, but when those driven men "arrive," they ditch the driven women.

See, I think people who didn't marry rich, or dont run in those circles, really shouldn't speak on it.

I do run in those circles. I am a young, single woman. Of course there are some socially awkward types that are always hitting on me and my friends. But the guys that are making the big money, and the ones that are actually dateable- they paired up long ago, and have stuck with the same woman. Usually a woman they met in grad school or college, or at work. But the common factor is that these women are their intellectual equals

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

This sums it up perfectly.

Not PP, but I would change the last part. Chairman of BigCorp wants a woman who isn't dumb and can be charming and elegant, but he doesn't require graduate degrees. He'll be fine with a bachelor's from a well-known university -- not Harvard or Yale, but Vanderbilt. He also prefers blondes -- unless the woman is foreign/exotic (only then is brunette acceptable).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We met in HYP grad school and got married. I came from a more well to do bachground than DH but he outearns me by a lot now.

+1

He was penniless when we met, and now makes well over $1M a year. And he knows I love him without the $$!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

NP here. I didn't marry rich. It was never my goal. But I've observed how this goes. You are the first wife. As are the wives of the other guys at the firm. The second wives are usually the trophy wives. Men get older and realize (because they are rich) they can date younger women. By that point, they realize it requires more work to date an equal. They also get a taste of the admiration and adulation they get from a younger, less intellectually ambitious women. They enjoy the feeling of always being the knowledgeable, wise one. So they go for the attractive woman who isn't entirely stupid but is certainly not their intellectual equal. It's easier for them that way. And by that point, they've learned from their experience with the first wife, the first wife being the one they met in college/grad school/law school, the one that saw them through the difficult years of carving out a career, the one that essentially helped build the wealth they now use to attract a younger trophy wife.

I've seen it happen. Driven men start out with driven women, but when those driven men "arrive," they ditch the driven women.

See, I think people who didn't marry rich, or dont run in those circles, really shouldn't speak on it.

I do run in those circles. I am a young, single woman. Of course there are some socially awkward types that are always hitting on me and my friends. But the guys that are making the big money, and the ones that are actually dateable- they paired up long ago, and have stuck with the same woman. Usually a woman they met in grad school or college, or at work. But the common factor is that these women are their intellectual equals

Who said I didn't run in those circles? I work around those circles. And what I've seen is different. The first wives are the ones they met in college. The second wives aren't stupid, but they're not the intellectual equals.

My guess is that you and your "circles" are still too young, and you haven't reached the point yet when the divorces happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

This sums it up perfectly.

Not PP, but I would change the last part. Chairman of BigCorp wants a woman who isn't dumb and can be charming and elegant, but he doesn't require graduate degrees. He'll be fine with a bachelor's from a well-known university -- not Harvard or Yale, but Vanderbilt. He also prefers blondes -- unless the woman is foreign/exotic (only then is brunette acceptable).

I agree about schools but not hair color. I think the type of guy that would ex out brunettes wouldn't date an "exotic" woman in the first place.

But I don't really notice any overarching preference for blondes in wealthy men.

[Anonymous]

19:20 here. I should clarify. Some of those marriages do last, but as the other PP said, he's stepping out. The wife has just accepted it.

I should also add that I'm talking about wealthy -- not comfortable but wealthy.

I actually think there's probably a sweet spot -- a level of financial comfort that makes for an easy life but doesn't cause problems in a marriage. But once men reach a certain level of wealth and/or power, something happens. They either cheat or they look for trophy wives. I'm sure there are outliers. But in general, that is what seems to happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

This sums it up perfectly.

Not PP, but I would change the last part. Chairman of BigCorp wants a woman who isn't dumb and can be charming and elegant, but he doesn't require graduate degrees. He'll be fine with a bachelor's from a well-known university -- not Harvard or Yale, but Vanderbilt. He also prefers blondes -- unless the woman is foreign/exotic (only then is brunette acceptable).

I agree about schools but not hair color. I think the type of guy that would ex out brunettes wouldn't date an "exotic" woman in the first place.

But I don't really notice any overarching preference for blondes in wealthy men.

You'd be surprised.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:19:20 here. I should clarify. Some of those marriages do last, but as the other PP said, he's stepping out. The wife has just accepted it.

I should also add that I'm talking about wealthy -- not comfortable but wealthy.

I actually think there's probably a sweet spot -- a level of financial comfort that makes for an easy life but doesn't cause problems in a marriage. But once men reach a certain level of wealth and/or power, something happens. They either cheat or they look for trophy wives. I'm sure there are outliers. But in general, that is what seems to happen.

Why do women even put up with men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

This sums it up perfectly.

Not PP, but I would change the last part. Chairman of BigCorp wants a woman who isn't dumb and can be charming and elegant, but he doesn't require graduate degrees. He'll be fine with a bachelor's from a well-known university -- not Harvard or Yale, but Vanderbilt. He also prefers blondes -- unless the woman is foreign/exotic (only then is brunette acceptable).

I agree about schools but not hair color. I think the type of guy that would ex out brunettes wouldn't date an "exotic" woman in the first place.

But I don't really notice any overarching preference for blondes in wealthy men.

You'd be surprised.

Eh, given the circles I run in, I don't think I would be.

Marrying someone is different from keeping them as a mistress... js....