How to snag a rich man?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

YET. Wait until they are all in their 50s (and their wives are in their 50s).

Nope, I'm talking about partners as well as associates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

+1 I'm a lawyer in my 20s (female) and NOBODY I know is dating a vapid blonde Marilyn Monroe. Every man I know wants a Jackie.

Also, this thread bugs me. The OP is pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.


YET. Wait until they are all in their 50s (and their wives are in their 50s).


Nope, I'm talking about partners as well as associates.

What the fuck? Pharmaceutical sale? Why on earth would anyone in high paid pharmaceutical sale job or sales in general want to marry anyone in law...let a lone meet anyone in law. LOL

[Anonymous]

"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

LOL, $1MM does not get you into the 1% of 1%.

[Anonymous]

My friends who married rich dudes put themselves where the rich dudes were. One took a part-time job in the leasing office of an Arlington high-rise that attracted single dudes with money. She met her husband when he leased an apartment from her.

The women I know who married rich are pretty and take care of themselves. They're all college-educated, some have masters degrees, but none had huge careers.

if you're looking to marry tech money, you should be smart and a little bit nerdy and not too slickly attractive. Most of the tech guys' wives are pretty "girl next door" attractive and most were tech-savvy.

[Anonymous]

My SIL married a rich man. She is an average looking girl, very plump, and her hair never looks great in my opinion. I think it's just a matter of being in the right place. She's kind of uppity and hangs in areas where a lot of well to do people spend time. One of her friends also has a kid with an NBA player so they were always hanging with wealthy types.

Also, my BIL insists that she work. They dated for a long time and during that time he made it clear he was only interested in women who made their own money even though she makes far less than he does she does have a really good job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Rich man" is such an open-ended term.

You've got the leading small-town lights, the Chamber of Commerce types in a fourth-tier city (think Winchester, Cumberland, Hagerstown, etc.) This could be a well-off doctor, leading lawyer, car dealership owner, etc. These guys will typically make 100-200k, but in areas where 500k gets you the biggest house in town and 150k gets you a solid middle class place such as a rambler that goes for 550k in Vienna or 400k in Greenbriar.

Then you've got the well-off commuters, the folks who can commute from Loudoun or Frederick to a middle area along the I-270 or 267 corridors, but still pull in 200-300k. They'll have a nice house in Baker Park or downtown Leesburg permitting the woman to SAH and raise kids/do her nails.

You've got big city doctors, lawyers, financiers, etc., who're pulling in 400k and more, well enough to live the DCUM Dream life for the most part, but not going to grab headlines.

Then finally you've got the 1%ers among the 1%ers, the folks whose job title includes things such as "Chairman of (company people have heard of)" and who're bringing in 1MM. They are wealthy enough to get pretty much whatever they want.

Each of these will have differing expectations. Someone who's a car dealership owner in Harrisonburg is more likely going to want a woman who's sweet, pretty, and doesn't cause drama. She shouldn't be a complete doofus, but doesn't have to be a leading intellectual light. Likewise, it'll be tolerated if she puts on 20-30 pounds as she enters her 40s and 50s, and it'll be more of a scandal if her husband does decide to step out.

However, the wife of the Chairman of BigCorp is going to want a woman who can impress intellectually -- graduate degrees are needed here. Likewise, it's almost expected that the husband will be stepping out, and the wife needs to stay fit, trim, and smart.

LOL, $1MM does not get you into the 1% of 1%.

Forgot the 0 after the 1. 10MM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience. DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career. Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women. I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.

+1 I'm a lawyer in my 20s (female) and NOBODY I know is dating a vapid blonde Marilyn Monroe. Every man I know wants a Jackie.

Also, this thread bugs me. The OP is pathetic.

sounds like they want someone they can keep down

[Anonymous]

This thread is hilarious.

Rich is so relative. If you just mean richer than you, I'd suggest only dating men who make more than you do.

So many people saying "fit" is a prerequisite, what about all of the rich men that like women with more curves or women that are heavier? There's a jar for every lid and everyone's preferences aren't the norm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Also, my BIL insists that she work. They dated for a long time and during that time he made it clear he was only interested in women who made their own money even though she makes far less than he does she does have a really good job.

Good for him for not allowing himself to become a gravy train.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They're all college-educated, some have masters degrees, but none had huge careers.

Of course they didn't. School is for meeting men, not financially supporting yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you people for real?

My comments were 100% dead serious.

I have a lot of cash, I'm in my early 40's. I want a hot 25-35 year old woman who is fit/toned, tanned, preferably a nice set of tits (fake is ideal), if not fake, I will pay for the surgery). She needs to look gorgeous in a dress/business suit and be able to carry a conversation with a group of people, someone I'm proud to take to events and can handle their wine. However, she needs to be kinky and playful back when we're home, and aggressive in bed, wanting it all.

I can even go as far as listing out ideal measurements if necessary. If I could truly go online to a reputable site and submit my requirements to get a list of results back and "order" this person, I would be VERY happy.

Thanks for checking in, Patrick Bateman.