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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know common wisdom says that you need to be super-hot and submissive with a career in pharmaceutical sales, but that hasn't been my experience.  DH is in biglaw and we met in law school, and I still have a pretty serious career.  Most of the successful guys at his firm are married to other driven professional women.  I don't know many with sugar baby trophy wives.[/quote]

NP here.  I didn't marry rich.  It was never my goal.  But I've observed how this goes.  You are the first wife.  As are the wives of the other guys at the firm.  The second wives are usually the trophy wives.  Men get older and realize (because they are rich) they can date younger women.  By that point, they realize it requires more work to date an equal.  They also get a taste of the admiration and adulation they get from a younger, less intellectually ambitious women.  They enjoy the feeling of always being the knowledgeable, wise one.  So they go for the attractive woman who isn't entirely stupid but is certainly not their intellectual equal.  It's easier for them that way.  And by that point, they've learned from their experience with the first wife, the first wife being the one they met in college/grad school/law school, the one that saw them through the difficult years of carving out a career, the one that essentially helped build the wealth they now use to attract a younger trophy wife.

I've seen it happen.  Driven men start out with driven women, but when those driven men "arrive," they ditch the driven women.

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