Oh please. You are insane. We are talking about a child who got a B. I feel horrible for kids whose parents are so obsessed with perfection. |
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I have to defend OP because it's obvious from the comments that most here have not yet had a child apply to college and deal with the implications of their GPA.
Is it terrible that a 7th grader got a B in high school level Geometry? Absolutely not! It's quite remarkable, really. Is it potentially terrible that that B could turn out to be the only blemish on an otherwise perfect record at college app time? If the kid is applying to UMD or GWU, no. If the kid is applying to Harvard/Yale/Princeton, quite possibly yes. So though it seems crazy to freak out about a middle schooler's B, OP is right to be concerned. |
| But if she retakes, the student will lose the prestige of three years of AP math in HS |
Assuming this kid can actually handle 3 AP math classes in HS Maybe that kid can excel in something else? |
Maybe the kid is not strong in math. Maybe he will not excel as they thought he would. Putting these kinds of pressure on a kid has horrible consequences when the kid cannot live up to expectations. Case and point: go read the thread we are all very familiar with about the girl who faked the acceptance letters. Different situation sure, but could it turn into something more based on OPs pressure, absolutely. I would rather my kid be happy and a B student that did not get into Harvard than looking up suicide methods online. |
I agree. What does your child think? I wouldn't make it about the particular grade, but about the level of challenge in general--the math is only going to get harder. It's possible that your child feels too far accelerated and would welcome a respite. Or, it's possible that the B will be a wake-up call and lead to more studying. Only your child and you know! |
Agree on rethinking the math track. The kids in my DCs grade who were on the super accelerated track were really really strong in math. They probably got nothing lower than a 95 in any quarter and 2 of DCs close friends got 800s on the Math2 subject test (and of course 5s in AP BC calc). Alg II is much more challenging than geometry. If she's getting Bs in geo maybe the regular accelerated track is better than the super accelerated track. From the perspective of colleges, getting As on the regular accelerated track is better than Bs on the super accelerated track. She will still take AP calc as a junior, which is more than most kids do. |
| OP, you need to land the chopper. Now. |
| A B in 7th grade math pretty much assures that your kid will not get into HYP. Or perhaps a state school. You should think about community college. Shame on you, OP, for ruining your kid's life. If you were a good parent, you would have intervened before she got a "B", which is basically an F. |
| If you're not first, you're last! SHAKE AND BAKE! |
| I think OP is FAR more bothered by these grades than a 12 year old is |
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OP,
Ignore the people who are trying to feel good about their own parenting by implying that you are pressurizing your kid. If their parenting and their kids were so wonderful they would not have a need to slam others. Those who feel bad for OP and his student, perhaps need to pay attention to their own children. MCPS is notorious for accelerating kids even when they are getting B's and C's. A B and a C is good enough for MCPS and many of the parents. I think in a subject like Math, if you do not have complete mastery, there is no reason to accelerate. And yes, these scores will matter if your kid apply to Harvard-Yale-Princeton etc. Even in MD state schools a higher GPA can fetch you $$$ for merit scholarships. You have a valid question. |
+1 million |
I am opposed to including middle school classes on the high school transcript, but practice I don't think it matters. There is not a college in the world that cares what grades a student got in 6th grade. Seriously. |