If I want to reveal to the wife what her husband has been cheating...

[Anonymous]

Hey OP,

there's a service that will mail your amazon purchases for you without your name being involved. I used it once for privacy reasons.

Just google it - I can't remember the company name but I remember there was a $50 surcharge. Someone on JJ Luna's blog recommended it.

[Anonymous]

Tell, just tell. If guys knew others wouldn't protect their secrets, there would be a lot less cheating.

I say let's make a pact among women that we will TELL. That guys cant count on us to keep their secrets.

Telling should be the norm not the exception.

What if guys knew this upfront ?

[Anonymous]

send flowers with an anonymous note to her. pay cash and give a fake name/number.

[Anonymous]

I still like the idea of cutting out letters from magazines - old school.

Honestly though if I received any sort of note or book or text regarding cheating my least concern would be about who sent it.

[Anonymous]

OP, I think you should tell. I keep thinking if this was me, I would really want to know if my husband was cheating. Can you just email her? Can't you just create an email under a different name and email this woman and say that you prefer to remain anonymous, but wanted to tell her what you know?

[Anonymous]

Tell one of US the details and we'll email it using Tor.

Either that or pay a homeless guy, like someone suggested.

[Anonymous]

I don't care if you tell or not, but I strongly disagree with sending her a vague message. I have zero idea of what you are trying to accomplish, but a direct message - he is cheating and you can find proof here - results in her most likely not giving a f*(k what the source is and not helping him figure it out. A vague message forces her to do some leg work and go running to him for an explanation, and perhaps for them to band together, gives him a chance to deny it and convince her, and then they together try to identify the source.

[Anonymous]

MYOB: some couples have agreements where one spouse allows the other to cheat due to a libido mismatch. You dont know what their situation is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's her boss?

I think OP is either the husband or the OW's assistant. Is this the case OP? If so, do NOT tell the wife.

[Anonymous]

OP: just download TOR, navigate to your fake email account while on Tor, and send her a straightforward email. Unless you work for the NSA you should be fine.