
Live and learn. Just be glad you didn't lend him any money. |
How old are you, OP? 15? |
Yay for checking him out on pipl OP!
When I did online dating, I forced myself to be thick skinned and trust but verify. It helped so much when sure enough, google revealed one guy that I liked a lot was not actually officially divorced as claimed. Hey, youre not the first to fall for B.S. and you won't be the last. Take a deep breath, really think about what you value and what you need and then relaunch an intensive search. Hugs...there are lying manipulative mIsogynists in this world...online and elsewhere and you need to know how to protect yourself and identify the ones with great character. The book women, sex and addiction by charlotte Davis kasl is imo a great read for learning to. Form a healthy intimate relationship. It changed my life. Second marriage is solid and free of abuse and craziness. You can do it OP! Ill be rooting for you ![]() |
Does he know where you live? I don't even know if I would confront him because he may be unstable. Just end it. |
1. Be glad you found all this out now, before your lives are any more entangled.
2. Look up catfishing. Be on the lookout for catfishing. 3. Write a great novel about a woman who turns the tables on a catfisher. 4. Success! |
Op here: yes he does know where I live |
You're moving on, right, OP? |
Well, it sounds like things were ending anyway. So you can escape gracefully. |
OP's not moving on, she needs to find out the truth.
Lol now granted she already knows the simple truth of the matter - that he's a liar. That's plain as day. But nooooooooooooo...the OP is obsessed and she is going to spend the next 4/5 months glued to her computer doing background searches and creating fake profiles and making friendly with him under false names to get every intimate detail she can about this guy; and for what? To find out the truth. Lol now granted she already knows the simple truth of the matter - that he's a liar. That's plain as day. But nooooooooooooo... (classic) |
OP here: him and I are over, that's 100% done. Still pisses me off that he lied to me about pretty much everything and maybe even his name. The "immature" side of me would love to screw him over too and keep up the fake profile and get him to fall for this fake person and have him go to meet this person just to be stood up but I've decided that im gonna take the high road and not do that. He will get his karma one day so that's all I need to know. Now I just need to get him to stop trying to text me and remain "friends" as he keeps asking me to do. |
Block his number. Delete everything about him. NOW. Do it. Also, grammar lesson for the day: It's "he and I" NOT "him and I." |
Just move on.
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What do expect from losers who post on line? |
OP, You could have save yourself some typing by just stopping with the bolded. That tells you all you need to know. Next time, please be smarter. At 27 you are too old to fall for this. |
You sound like you are only marginally less wacky than he is. This is way too much emotion for a guy that you've barely met. |