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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
3. Incorrect. I got herpes from my ex. He never had visible sores on his mouth or lips and I still got herpes from oral sex. Oral sex is risky even if you have been with someone for years. I dated my ex for years and that one time, he gave me herpes from oral sex.

^^omg please educate yourself on this. Herpes simplex 1 is the mouth kind--not sexual necessarily at all--just from saliva toddlers give it to each other!

Herpes II is the genital type so you need to be looking in that area. And it sounds like your ex cheated probably more recently than you realize.