Are these red flags?

[Anonymous]

Many of these, and especially together, sound like red flags to me.

But more importantly, they sound like red flags to you or you would not be posting. Trust your gut. Break up with him. You will feel better in a couple of weeks. I guarantee it. This man does not make you happy or comfortable. You want to feel like he is. Your post is a cry for help.

Do it and tell this thread that you did it (and some friends who are probably also questioning all this) in order to stick with it.

[Anonymous]

The OP had a million red flags. And every time you post more info, it gets worse. He sounds controlling and possessive. Get out while you can still make a clean break.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:RUN

Then read The Gift of Fear

x2. OP PLEASE read "the Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker.... and sooner rather than later

[Anonymous]

He sounds dreadful. Like, really bad. Not even a question.

[Anonymous]

+1 for the marriage counselor. I married a controlling guy bc I was 35 and felt like I would never meet anyone else. The only thing that had allowed our marriage to work is his willingness to change and my refusal to be controlled. It took therapy for me to learn how to set boundaries and stick up for myself and ensure he respects me. It's a tough road. I'm glad it worked out for us but I would not choose it again. And here's the kicker... Your guy's behavior is way worse than my guy's behavior ever was. Just get out. Living a life on eggshells is not worth it.