What does my DH want from me?? A hall pass? Blessing?
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Anonymous
Could backfire. Boss might be a woman. Dh could be into that. |
Anonymous
| His boss is a woman and there is plenty of mutual flirtation going on there as well. I have seen the emails. |
Anonymous
| Have you offered to meet him at happy hour? Short of that, get you a life. Go out, go on trips with the girls, get in Involved in activities. When he realizes that you don't care where he is or what he is doing, he will start to worry. When he texts you, forget to text him back. When he asked about happy hour, say "oh you went, Hadn't noticed." |
Anonymous
| I would have to take a train to his happy hour destinations. Unfortunately I get out of work too late to catch up with him. I'm not so sure i would fit in with his single guy thing he thinks he has going on anyway... Sigh |
Anonymous
| It seems that he is clearly having an affair. Its a cry for your attention in a real way. Have you both been totally honest in your counseling sessions? If not its time to really come clean -- both of you. The marriage may be able to be saved but he needs to admit his cheating, you need to admit to whatever you have done to make him unhappy and you both need to admit what you have done to contribute to each others anger and unhappiness. |