Stupid for suddenly losing body fat due to weaning? Or stupid for posting about it on a forum full of compassionless people like yourself?
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Stupid for asking (or rather, humbly bragging) about whether it is normal for fat to "fall off." Of course it's not normal or common. Use some common sense before asking (bragging) about dumb sh*t. |
No (new poster here) - for being clueless and/or insensitive. Do you really think that it's common to get an 'instantly flat stomach' after weaning? Do you live under a rock? |
I'm the PP who recommended the pysch referral and I don't think it's fair to call the OP stupid. Plenty of highly intelligent and otherwise successful people suffer from eating disorders. But surely the OP knows that 10% body fat is not normal or healthy for a woman. The fact that she's been so preoccupied with it, measuring it over & over again, is also cause for concern. I'm being sincere and not trying to mock anyone. Maybe I should have made that clear in my first reply. |
| go to the hospital now, you have worms |
| No, weaning = instant flat boobs. |
Ha-ha! Yep, you're right, that part of me did instantly melt away. |
So you admit the 500 other PP threads about how hard it is to lose weight don't apply to you, so you know it's not normal. I have a friend who brags like this under the guise of, "is this normal?" Because she's a clueless clod and fails to notice people's reactions (specifically newly postpartum mothers) and is not really open to criticism, I'll give you the warning I wish I could give her: "no, being thinner after birth or weaning is not a common occurrence. You are inches away from getting decked by a new mother. Stop concern-bragging in front of people who did not win that particular genetic lottery. If you are genuinely concerned, see a doctor, you know, the person who can run diagnostics and find out if you have a problem." |
Having a different experience than the one you have and posting about it is not insensitive. Obviously I was reaching out to those who may have had a similar experience. You and some other posters are acting as if posting about unintentional weight loss d/to weaning on a parenting board is akin to bragging about your BFP in the infertility forum. It isn't. |
I'll quote the poster above me, since you don't seem to get it. "no, being thinner after birth or weaning is not a common occurrence. You are inches away from getting decked by a new mother. Stop concern-bragging in front of people who did not win that particular genetic lottery. If you are genuinely concerned, see a doctor, you know, the person who can run diagnostics and find out if you have a problem." |
| consistently pinching yourself to see how much body fat you have is nor normal, especially postpartum. you have issues. |
| Op, I'd get your thyroid checked. And maybe a full metabolic panel done. |
| Ewww, OP, are you saying you didn't have a flat stomach right after birth? Gross. |
I had an 8-pack. Funnily, I had a 6-pack before birth but my stomach looked better immediately after!! Anyone else? |
Flat by most standards, but this is pretty extreme. My abs are suddenly visible and I do not work out at all. |