Hmmm lemmesee ... the HUSBAND of the PP who posted three dresses said he found them to be quite sexy. A heterosexual woman says they are not sexy. Who gets more cred? Everything is full coverage? I guess it's sexy to run around with your junk hanging out? Material that holds you in (and slims you down) is not sexy. Dresses that cross in back are athletic, not sexy. I think someone wishes she could fit into Athleta. |
I get tired of reading on these boards the only way to be stylish/sexy is to wear skinny jeans and ballet flats, which I personally think look terrible on most women (and reads a little uptight). There is no "one size fits all" approach to looking good. The other day I had lunch with my husband near his job, wearing my Athleta shorts and some random shirt. Later that day, his co-worker said to him: "Who did I see you having lunch with? Your girlfriend? I thought you were married." My husband said: "That was my wife." The guy said, "Oh, I thought it was some college kid you picked up." I'm 37, so this story obviously made my day (though, admittedly, maybe I was dressed a little casual). But you don't put on a pair of [insert brand here] shorts and automatically become frumpy/dowdy. There are plenty of frumps wearing ballet flats, skinny jeans, and scarfs. If you find something that flatters you--regardless of whether it's at the Gap or Nordstrom, or whether it is trendy or not--by all means, buy it. |
Ummm, did you go to some community college for intellectual enrichment? Athleta is not the Gap. It is owned by the Gap. Chanel owns L'Oreal. Is Banana Republic not up to your standards, either? |
Exactly. Men do double-takes when they see me wearing these size 6 shorts: http://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=86349&vid=1&pid=739408092 Suburban frumpy? How about sour grapes? |
Skinny jeans are tacky. Ballet flats make everyone's legs look fatter. Ankle boots are dowdy. |
Hey, feel free to disagree with me. I maintain that if you want to look "in" as the OP originally asked about - Athleta is not going to be your look. |
How would I not fit into Athleta? So you agree with me that material that holds you in and that dresses that cross in the back are not sexy? And the opposite of "full coverage" is not "all your junk hanging out." I'm glad PP's husband thinks she looks sexy in those dresses, but they are not "in." |
I disagree. I disagree. I disagree. |
I don't get why it's "sour grapes" to say that something is suburban frumpy. My opinion is that Athleta is, generally speaking, suburban mom, which is generally the opposite of "in." It doesn't mean that some people don't think some of it is sexy mom or that you don't look hot in those shorts. What straight men don't like well-toned women in shorts? It doesn't mean that because you look hot in those shorts that Athleta is "in." Also stating my opinion that it is not in has nothing to do with how I look in Athleta or that I'm jealous of those that do look good in Athleta. The simple fact is that I think it says suburban mom. Is your look suburban mom? Your husband likes you in Athleta? Awesome, rock on with it. |
Note that no one has ever said that the "only way" to be stylish/sexy is skinny jeans and flats. I said that if you want an easy to wear and throw on, stylish look that you can run after your kids in, then skinny jeans and flats would be perfect. The reason that look keeps coming up is because this is a mom board and it's an easy look for a mom that wants to still look stylish to look good in. I disagree wholeheartedly that it reads uptight if done casually. |
You said they were not sexy. |
Flats and skinny jeans are not stylish, nor do they look good. |
What is it, exactly, about those shorts that says "suburban mom" to you? Do you feel bad about yourself because you can't afford DC? |
Ah, the "you don't like it so you must not be able to afford it" defense. Got it. You win. |
| Didn't you or some other moron also say that Athleta is for women who are out of shape? |