Husband Concerned About My Boss

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your husband is projecting. Sorry, but you need to find out who he cheated/is cheating with.

JFC this post is ELEVEN YEARS OLD. STOP RESPONDING TO IT.

[Anonymous]

I would not to marriage counseling for this, because the implication would be that this is an issue up for discussion. It’s not. I would lay down the law and tell him he does not interfere with my job, and not discuss it further.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This could be delusional disorder, jealous subtype. It's a mental illness where people cling to false beliefs, in this case that a partner is cheating. They can read the littlest, insignificant thing as an indication of an affair, such as your email hoping that your boss feels better soon. You can never prove that you're not having an affair to someone with jealous delusional disorder. I would look for a psychiatrist and try to talk your husband into getting a psychiatric evaluation, but most people with delusional disorders are very resistant to seeking treatment. Low doses of anti-psychotic drugs are the typical treatment. If marriage counseling helped reduce the jealosy before, that may be useful.

OP, This is the correct answer. It is nothing you are doing. Your husband has mental illness.

My ex husband thought I was having affairs with men in the office. He started tracking the mileage on my car. If I went out in the neighborhood on a fitness walk he thought I was having an affair with a man in the neighborhood.

This gets worse over time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your husband is projecting. Sorry, but you need to find out who he cheated/is cheating with.

JFC this post is ELEVEN YEARS OLD. STOP RESPONDING TO IT.

Calm down anger management dropout. Clearly we didn’t notice that from the recent topics page.

[Anonymous]

Ask Jeff if the OP still posts here. We need to know what happened!