What's the worst thing someone you date/d or are married to has ever said to you?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a guy and he left an unfinished email open on my computer, so I read it. In his original email, he told his friend that I had small boobs and a small a*s but I was a good fu*k. Needless to say he was history...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"I am not charmed by you anymore". my husband told me that around our 1 year anniversary. we separated before our 2nd year anniversary. I left him. But it still brings tears to my eyes for some reason.

Wow, so sorry to hear that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe we should also have a thread about the worst thing we've ever said? Mine was on the second date with someone: we went to a restaurant and she spent the whole dinner bad-mouthing the wait staff, the other patrons, and everything about me. After we left the restaurant, she asked if we'd go out again. I replied, "I'm sorry, but your breasts are way too small for me to put up with this much crap."

She slapped me and walked off. I went back into the restaurant, had a drink, and laughed about it with the bartender.

Umm, I guess you look like Brad Pitt?
In the future, just say, "I don't think that we should see each other again, you seemed irritated with everything tonight". That way, you take the high road and have no guilt. So you don't have to be thinking/writing about it years later.

[DCUberNanny]

At the time of this incident I was 5'10, about 165 with an hourglass figure, toned, flat tummy, pert bottom, the whole 9. I had big boobs - 38D, pushing a DD, all natural.

Me: Ugh, this is ridiculous. I need a breast reduction.

Him: Breast reduction, or weight reduction? Haha.

Even when I cried right in front of his face he didnt seem to get why I was mad about that.

He may only have topped that with this one -

(On Valentines Day, 5 minutes before I leave for work)

Me: What are we going to do tonight?

Him: Nothing.

Me: Why? Do you have to go in to work or something?

Him: I dont love you anymore.


And of course, I still live with him. He, many many other Ahole guys out there, has his moments.

[Anonymous]

pp, NEVER cry in front of him.

[DCUberNanny]

^^^Having the guy you just started dating basically call you fat then laugh about it is kind of hard to ignore, no? I know one sure fire way to make a man uncomfortable is to see a woman crying, I am definitely not hiding my reactions from him!

[DCUberNanny]

Anonymous wrote:I never dated in high school, so when I had my first boyfriend over Valentine's day in college, I was ecstatic.

When I gave him his present (cologne) he said:

Oh Sorry. I dont have anything for you. I thought the blow job was my valentine's day gift.

Im sorry, but the way you phrased this just sounds funny. Honestly, youre doing pretty good if thats the worst thing anyone ever said to you!

[DCUberNanny]

Anonymous wrote:PP here- in the event another male wants to blast me- I am just saying you should have been direct rather than bring up an insecurity- regardless if her attitude warranted some comment. Being direct with you're a bitch would have been better received..

I like the line from Family Guy - "Well, I'd love to stay and chat, but youre a total bitch."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was dating a guy and he left an unfinished email open on my computer, so I read it. In his original email, he told his friend that I had small boobs and a small a*s but I was a good fu*k. Needless to say he was history...

Some people might actually take these 3 observations as complimentary, albeit rude!

[Anonymous]

the last few posts have changed the tone of this thread, sadly.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, what a "feel good" thread it's been until now...

[Anonymous]

we dated 5 years (2 in college and 3 after). the last 2 we lived together. we were at a costume party with our friends and he was acting distant. i asked what was wrong (he wasn't wearing a costume so i thought maybe he felt out of place, obvi) and he says: i don't love you. in fact, i don't think i've ever really loved you.

yes, it was just like when harry met sally.

he moved to the couch. less than two weeks later i found a new apartment because he wouldn't move out the great one we were in. after i get settled he decides to move and i end up stuck living in some terrible place on the hill.

six months later i met my husband. best thing that ever happened to me. my ex is now married to a woman who could be my twin, but i've heard from mutual friends she's very subservient (something i never was) and they're starting ivf next month.

[Anonymous]

I moved because of an (informal) marital engagement. I gave up a great job. After I got there, he moved away and said, "come on, it [the engagement] wasn't for real".