Anyone consider or actually have an affair?

[Anonymous]

Anyone else with a response to OP's question?

(I know it's a lot more fun talking about our husbands and other men, but I'm interested in whether anyone else has thoughts on whether YOU would act.)

[Anonymous]

fantasized about it: yes, seriously considered or did it: no. It would ruin our relationship.

[Anonymous]

BTDT with the affair in my first marriage. I learned from that though. Now I am divorcing my 2nd husband b/c he cheated on me twice (that I know of). Would I sleep with someone now, while I'm still married? Not even now. It's not because of my concern for him. It's because I expect more of myself, even in the end game.