Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous
You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.
I agree. It's not for anyone to say how her life will be for being a young mother. Everyone has to follow their own path.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.


Having a baby at 15 is a recipe for vulnerability and future poverty.

Anyone claiming it would be dandy a man in his 20s to impregnate a 15 year old maybe needs their hard drive checked.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I saw something really strange recently in PA. The guy is almost 21 and girl just turned 15 and they got married. Is it even allowed? I thought in some states it is ok after parental consent but that is very young for a girl to be getting married. It doesn't matter but can tell you the demographics if it helps with the cultural background.


Sounds like a shotgun wedding. He didn't wrap that rascal and done knocked her up.


Yep get er done
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.


Yea, no. I live in a predominantly Hispanic area with a lot of teen moms and their lives get pretty messed up. The men are usually abusive in some way, they get stuck in poverty and need government assistance for their entire lives.

Just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s a good choice. Drinking and driving is common but it’s not a good choice.
Anonymous
Age of marriage is 15 in Kansas and Hawaii with parental and judicial approval.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_age_in_the_United_States

A Nebraska man has a child with an underage girl and then married her in Kansas. He got convicted in Nebraska and went to prison.

journalstar.com/news/local/article_9d7bfa6a-14c8-11df-981e-001cc4c002e0.html
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
A Nebraska man has a child with an underage girl and then married her in Kansas. He got convicted in Nebraska and went to prison.


Matthew went to prison for 15 months. During that time, Crystal got pregnant by someone else.

https://journalstar.com/news/local/article_9d7bfa6a-14c8-11df-981e-001cc4c002e0.html
Anonymous
She shouldn't be married at 15 but that has nothing to do with being a teen mom as she can be a teen mom without marriage and spouse. An IUD is needed regardless of her marital status.

If she doesn’t want this marriage and was forced by husband or parents, this marriage can be annulled and she can emancipate and live independently with governmental help.

Is this untimely marriage due to religious belief in only marital sex, an accidental pregnancy or to get a free aid based college education?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


+1 you cannot convince me that a girl this young can knowingly consent to marriage. Fortunately, the law agrees with me and protects vulnerable kids. Like it or not, she has been trafficked. She cannot legally consent to marriage.
Let CPS assess the situation.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.


Having a baby at 15 is a recipe for vulnerability and future poverty.

Anyone claiming it would be dandy a man in his 20s to impregnate a 15 year old maybe needs their hard drive checked.


+1. Perfectly said.
Anonymous
a teen mom at such a young age is also going to be a bad picture for her kids and god forbid if she has daughters.
Anonymous
was this law different like 20-25 years ago and now changed?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.


Yep. It’s the lifestyle
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to call CPS.

This is illegal in PA. The 21 year old would/should be prosecuted for statutory rape and assault.

CPS will absolutely get involved if you report. And you should, before this girl ends up a young teen mom and her life ruined.


why her life would be ruined if she is a teen mom? May be that's all she always wanted. You would be surprised how common it is in hispanic community for girls to be close to 20 and have a baby.


Yea, no. I live in a predominantly Hispanic area with a lot of teen moms and their lives get pretty messed up. The men are usually abusive in some way, they get stuck in poverty and need government assistance for their entire lives.

Just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s a good choice. Drinking and driving is common but it’s not a good choice.


How about some cultural sensitivity? /s
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