Can’t stand my ex-husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:File for 100% custody. Do it now while your kids are young.

really? because OP can't handle some hatred or resentment? She chose to have kids with this guy and he has right to be a dad and noone should punish their kids by taking 100% custody. Stupid

I mean, I agree with you about not taking away their dad, but jesus. OP was just venting. There was nothing there that indicated she "can't handle" some resentment.

DP. Right. So the "File for 100% custody" recommendation is Stupid, like PP said.

Also OP is just venting. So nobody should be offering solutions to something OP doesn't want solved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey - just empathy here. I have been divorced since 2018 and I'm still astounded how my ex treats me. I don't get it. I never will. And I'm also sad that our kids notice and will ask me why he's mean to me, and I still have to be the bigger person and navigate that question carefully. But because of how my ex treats me, there isn't even a way to have that conversation with him.

I was always hopeful we'd coparent well. And we did okay for a few years and then it just got worse and worse over the years for some reason and now we just parallel parent.

So I get it. I see you. I understand you. And I'm sorry. It sucks.

Are you costing him money?