Fight with husband

[Anonymous]

How the heck did he not care, see, feel, recognized 'not tonight', before you even said it? I bet you have given in 100x before when he also didn't recognize it. The fact that you don't want to do it is even in the action usually.
A person who doesn't recognize that partner is not, usually also fails to see partner's other needs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After I told him tomorrow, he kept pushing it.

I didn’t make him dinner tonight, so he’s now angry about that and not talking either.

He shouldn't have called you a b!!ch. But I do wonder why you are such a fckng b!!ch.

No one should be calling anyone a b&tch

[Anonymous]

Surprised I haven’t seen one - I would never have divorced if my DH initiated sex ever and she’s complaining about 2x a day?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The first poster is ridiculous.
If you say, “not tonight, tomorrow,” then that should be the end of the discussion. If he keeps bringing it up, then he is being a jerk, and you should be allowed to call him out on it without repercussions.

I mean, I would expect this from my six year old if I told him that we couldn’t get ice cream tonight, but we will tomorrow.

This!!!!!

This! I have to assume that you allow your husband to speak to you and about other women like this, or this is a troll post. If this happened to me I would give him the benefit of sending him for a brain tumor scan. Otherwise I would consider the relationship over after understanding how little respect he had for me.

[Anonymous]

Omg.

I read the op post and am like wtf context.

How anyone can reply to this pointless, non contextual post is beyond me.

[Anonymous]

I am so confused what’s going on. We were already close yesterday morning? What does that mean? Intimate? Close to having a fight?And what does he kept pushing it mean?

[Anonymous]

Did you offer to “help” in any way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After I told him tomorrow, he kept pushing it.

I didn’t make him dinner tonight, so he’s now angry about that and not talking either.

He shouldn't have called you a b!!ch. But I do wonder why you are such a fckng b!!ch.

No one should be calling anyone a b&tch

This would never happed in my marriage. Abuse starts with name calling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After I told him tomorrow, he kept pushing it.

I didn’t make him dinner tonight, so he’s now angry about that and not talking either.

He shouldn't have called you a b!!ch. But I do wonder why you are such a fckng b!!ch.

No one should be calling anyone a b&tch

This would never happed in my marriage. Abuse starts with name calling.

sorry,
happen

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you offer to “help” in any way?

She shouldn’t have had to…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We can’t fairly say who is in the wrong.

That is a really big escalation over declining sex and you’re withholding too much information for us to make a judgment. Like the history of this behavior, whether you get along, your sex life, what happened that day, etc.

Is "being close" a euphemism for sex? That totally went over my head!

Why do people feel the need to use euphemisms instead of just saying directly that “we had sex” or “we fu<ked.”

Instead we get these little cutey things like “make love” or, worse, “intimacy.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After I told him tomorrow, he kept pushing it.

I didn’t make him dinner tonight, so he’s now angry about that and not talking either.

He shouldn't have called you a b!!ch. But I do wonder why you are such a fckng b!!ch.

No one should be calling anyone a b&tch

To be sure, she called him a name first.

[Anonymous]

You have sex with him almost everyday, and he has the audacity to call you names because you want to skip a day? First of all, no one should ever call you any names. It only takes once for me, and I'm gone. Second, a whiny man who is not getting sex as much as he wants is the least attractive creature on earth, and I would have a hard time ever being in the mood again with that one.

[Anonymous]

The name calling between you two is immature.