My Husband Thinks I’m Too Close to My Ex-Husbands

[Anonymous]

OP is not the issue. Her ex husbands are the issue

I'm always in a good mood, but as soon as I get a text from my ex wife or i have to text her for something for which I MUST have an answer from her, I have ZERO communication with her.

Why do some men keep texting their ex wives?

[Anonymous]

Just talk less to ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How’d you end up married a third time? Most of us became pretty cynical about men and marriage by a second divorce.

Gee, you're funny.

[Anonymous]

Step back from DH2 and set a fixed time window to talk coparenting with DH1.

[Anonymous]

Presumably your third husband married you, knowing your relationship with your previous husbands.

I think he’s out of line to try and change your relationship. If it was a deal breaker to have you close to your x, he shouldn’t have even gone on a date. He made this bed, he can lay in it.

[Anonymous]

Op, your DH is right. This is too much. Why are you texting that much; develop indifference and only do it when needed.

Discussing personal matters with your first Husband? You can't be serious? That is a big NO NO. You need emotional support, find it with your current DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is not the issue. Her ex husbands are the issue

I'm always in a good mood, but as soon as I get a text from my ex wife or i have to text her for something for which I MUST have an answer from her, I have ZERO communication with her.

Why do some men keep texting their ex wives?

Everything is in OP's control. She doesn't have to respond to them or be overly friendly. Also, talking 10 times a day with your Ex about kid is not going to improve kids' lives.

OP need to fix this issue otherwise she would be on the lookout for 4th husband soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Presumably your third husband married you, knowing your relationship with your previous husbands.

I think he’s out of line to try and change your relationship. If it was a deal breaker to have you close to your x, he shouldn’t have even gone on a date. He made this bed, he can lay in it.

Husband #3 sounds controlling and possessive and insecure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Texting multiple times a day on a normal day about one 12 year old boy is ridiculous.

That's a lot. Even for a Catholic priest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Presumably your third husband married you, knowing your relationship with your previous husbands.

I think he’s out of line to try and change your relationship. If it was a deal breaker to have you close to your x, he shouldn’t have even gone on a date. He made this bed, he can lay in it.

Husband #3 sounds controlling and possessive and insecure.

Not at all. It is the OP that is not respecting boundaries. She is on her path to get divorce again and then going to whine that all men are bad. LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should stop getting married to random boyfriends, OP. That will solve your problem. Your third is heading for the door right now. After this one, don't get married again. Your future boyfriends won't have a say in how close you are to your exes.

This. 100% WTF, lady, three marriages in what, 13 years?? Stop marrying the first person you date after your divorce!!

[Anonymous]

If your husband is uncomfortable w/your contact w/your ex-husbands, then out of respect for him ➕ your marriage you should minimize communication.

I think your communication w/your son’s father is a tad excessive……

[Anonymous]

You should not be getting gifts from ex husbands. Cordial, respectful relationships, but not deep or meaningful would be my expectations. OP, it seems like you are a better ex than spouse and may need some counseling to work through why.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Presumably your third husband married you, knowing your relationship with your previous husbands.

I think he’s out of line to try and change your relationship. If it was a deal breaker to have you close to your x, he shouldn’t have even gone on a date. He made this bed, he can lay in it.

Husband #3 sounds controlling and possessive and insecure.

Nobody wants to be husband #3.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell your current husband that you’ll talk to him just as much as your other exes when you marry your fourth husband.