If you found this out what would you do

[Anonymous]

If his best friend and then girlfriend were in a serious committed long term relationship at the time, I would be pretty disappointed in your husband (and best friend's girlfriend). They were in college, yes. But adults and know better than to sleep with each other.

My guess is that it was more a casually dating, on and off type thing and they were all not exclusive at that point. If that was the case - then not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

He just left out the part where they were spit roasting her so you wouldn’t think less of him.

[Anonymous]

Levee it alone at this point. Still messy.
Dating in the same circles is a no though.

[Anonymous]

Your husband is a scum bag. If he is willing to betray his best friend, he will probably betray you as well. Are you sure they are not sleeping with each other anymore ?

[Anonymous]

…sounds like the plot of the movie “The Best Man.” The friend finds out and does NOT take it well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:…sounds like the plot of the movie “The Best Man.” The friend finds out and does NOT take it well.

As he shouldn't. He should dump his cheating wh0re wife and shitty lack of loyalty "best" friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Absolutely not, da fkkk! That's wild that you would even consider doing this.

+1 million.

What is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

I would find it highly amusing and would not tell anyone, for the sake of their friendship.

Also, in case you're worried, I don't think this is a red flag that he might cheat on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:…sounds like the plot of the movie “The Best Man.” The friend finds out and does NOT take it well.

Remember the scene at the wedding when he was having flashbacks ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I would find it highly amusing and would not tell anyone, for the sake of their friendship.

Also, in case you're worried, I don't think this is a red flag that he might cheat on you.

Wrong. People with no moral fiber, like this man, will absolutely be at risk for future cheating.

[Anonymous]

Who cares about what happened in college 15 years ago? Are you jealous because you didn’t have fun in college?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well I would want to know.

No, you wouldn’t.

You would only need to know if it was likely to happen again. If it was a drunken one-off thing decades ago then innocence is bliss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.

Do you want someone to run a cat fax on you and provide it to your husband? MYOB

[Anonymous]

Funny the hypocrisy I read here.

I've posted about how 20 years ago my then fiancee got sent to London for work for 6 months. She'd been living a a group house with friends in the Palisades, I went by to grab some of my things in her room things while she was gone and ended up having sex with her best friend pretty much all over the house. This continued in secret until the day before my fiancee got home and then..... never again. Not so much as another kiss. As far as I know, the friend and I are the only people that know.

And I got torn apart for that here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Funny the hypocrisy I read here.

I've posted about how 20 years ago my then fiancee got sent to London for work for 6 months. She'd been living a a group house with friends in the Palisades, I went by to grab some of my things in her room things while she was gone and ended up having sex with her best friend pretty much all over the house. This continued in secret until the day before my fiancee got home and then..... never again. Not so much as another kiss. As far as I know, the friend and I are the only people that know.

And I got torn apart for that here.

If you don't see the difference you can't be helped.