If you found this out what would you do

[Anonymous]

If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.

[Anonymous]

No. They weren't married. It was college. It seems like you're looking for drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. They weren't married. It was college. It seems like you're looking for drama.

+1
Leave it alone.

[Anonymous]

No, what.. your not on your hubbys side?

[Anonymous]

Are you certain your husband's friend doesn't already know?

[Anonymous]

no

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not, da fkkk! That's wild that you would even consider doing this.

[Anonymous]

How did this even come up after all these years?

[Anonymous]

I would do nothing because it's not a big deal, WELL in the past, and I'm not a shit stirring drama llama.

[Anonymous]

Well I would want to know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.

MYOB and shut up.

It was college 15 years ago who the hell cares.

[Anonymous]

Oh, God no. Why stir up college s*** at this point?

[Anonymous]

Why would you bring this up, OP?!

[Anonymous]

I mean, do you want to get divorced? Because blowing up drama like this could cause some big problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.

Did you just find out about this? How did it come up in conversation? No. You don't tell anyone about it. They are married and have kids. If she desired your dh, she would be married to him now and not the other guy.