Guy I was dating sent me a crude meme

[Anonymous]

Two dates? You don't find him appealing. Why waste energy asking anyone else's opinion. You have almost nothing invested here. Just move on and quit thinking about it. Not a good match for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No you are not

Don't have contact with him again

+1

The red flag showed early, excellent.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

[Anonymous]

He's gross.

Anyone who calls someone a princess when they send something like this, goodbye.

I mean, he had to know there would be a chance you'd be offended. HE'S easily offended (or acting that way) if he said this to you.

[Anonymous]

He is obviously testing you.

Block him and move on.

No contact, not even to tell him to leave you alone.

A gift that he did not waste more of your time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

Op here. I’m surprised he was upset that I was offended. Then he said I sent o easily be offended.

We have been texting and shared that we find each other attractive. I was surprised by the crude meme and didn’t find it sexy or cute. Instead of saying oh just kidding, im sorry, he is turning it into a me problem, then calls me a princess.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

So if you send a picture of a snowman and the reaction is they’re offended because it must be racist, you’re not going to wonder what the hell is wrong with them? And you’re going to apologize?
Not apologizing for things that only crazy people find offensive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

So if you send a picture of a snowman and the reaction is they’re offended because it must be racist, you’re not going to wonder what the hell is wrong with them? And you’re going to apologize?
Not apologizing for things that only crazy people find offensive.

A normal, decent person apologizes for offending another human being. An arrogant prick thinks he knows everything and can't possibly be offensive. Which one are you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

Op here. I’m surprised he was upset that I was offended. Then he said I sent o easily be offended.

We have been texting and shared that we find each other attractive. I was surprised by the crude meme and didn’t find it sexy or cute. Instead of saying oh just kidding, im sorry, he is turning it into a me problem, then calls me a princess.

He is a lunatic. As so many others have said, ghost him and move on.

[Anonymous]

Maybe. Maybe not but you are obviously not a good match. Time to move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

My ex husband did this after we were married. At least you know now. End it.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

It’s hard to say without seeing it. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog doesn’t immediately make me think oral sex.

What offends one person doesn't offend another. His response is the problem.

IDK. I could honestly see this from either side. If someone is offended by a meme that was funny and not intended as offensive, I would honestly wonder what is wrong with them.
The guy may or may not be showing red flags, but only 2 dates and this reaction to a meme makes it not compatible to go on date 3.

The ONLY response to someone being offended by a dumb meme is "I'm sorry. I didn't intend to offend you."

That's it.

So if you send a picture of a snowman and the reaction is they’re offended because it must be racist, you’re not going to wonder what the hell is wrong with them? And you’re going to apologize?
Not apologizing for things that only crazy people find offensive.

A normal, decent person apologizes for offending another human being. An arrogant prick thinks he knows everything and can't possibly be offensive. Which one are you?

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