Guy I was dating sent me a crude meme

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

You guess? Is that what he said?

Doesn't really matter anyway, you're clearly not compatible. Just move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

Why are you still thinking about him?
OK, you had a momentary lapse in judgment but he's showing you very loudly now who he is and it just isn't for you.
It's obvious he didn't work out for his daughters' mother either. How many more red flags do you need?
He's a past tense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

Ew, it sounds like he objectifies women and is extremely immature, probably why he’s divorced.

Dump him and move on. I know your worth more than that.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he's vulgar and disrespectful. I agree with others that his reaction is more problematic than sending the meme itself.

[Anonymous]

You have been on 2 dates. If you don't like him, don't see him again.

[Anonymous]

Red flag all the way around. At best, you two just don't get along well. It's fine if he thinks you are easily offended, it's better than seeing him again.

[Anonymous]

All of you are being silly and short sided in your responses
She's the one that drew first blood. Why didn't you just ask him his meaning and interpretation in the meme because you don't get it
Instead of being so offensive to him as to say "I'm offended". You're the Quilty one with no social clue.

[Anonymous]

You didn't sleep with him, did you, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You didn't sleep with him, did you, OP?

No I did not.

[Anonymous]

Dump him. This is when people are on their best behavior. It only goes down from here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have been on 2 dates. If you don't like him, don't see him again.

+1. Be happy you learned so soon,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No you are not

Don't have contact with him again

Same

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

Not offensive, but you clearly aren't a good match.