Ok, again for the people who lack reading comprehension skills, I was responding to the "teacher" who griped about how parents have a misconception of how well their child is doing compared to other kids. If a teacher knows parents don't have the info, it seems crappy to complain parents have a misconception. Also, iReady only tells you so much and, in my experience now that my kids are older and I have CAPE data, do not let a 98th/99th percentile score in iready lull you into the sense that your kid is at the 98th or 99th percentile at your DCPS elementary. If you're at one of the top performing schools, they are likely not that high. |
| We have a variety of clubs, some open to all and others by application and/or where cuts are made. In elementary school, my child could tell me which math and reading group she was in and how that compared to others, plus had special pull outs for those two subject areas as she and some of her peers were seemingly more advanced. She also was asked by the teacher leading a club to do the math afterschool activity being offered. I see this as teachers differentiating and challenging my child. Other clubs she has had to go through an application process and cuts have become more common in middle school, which is perfectly fine by me. We can't always be selected and she needs to learn that lesson. Having a wide breadth of clubs helps children find their interests and have new experiences. As long as you do not perceive children are being cherrypicked for activities because of their parents' status on the PTA, careers, etc. I think it is okay if not all clubs are open to all. |
The cherry-picking definitely happened at our elementary school. |
If you can't explain the metrics for selection, it's not a fair process. And yes, if choices are made based vaguely on "teacher discretion" then parents will lobby the teacher because the teacher has made the selection entirely about her judgment. But if you can articulate reasons, parents will shut up. Like it can just be "we base it on test scores and then sometimes add a kid whose on the bubble because of interest and classroom maturity," then if a parent is in there arguing their kid should have been selected, you can say "I didn't feel his classroom maturity is there yet, but it's something he can work on." Parents are not going to argue a teacher on that, plus that's actually good info for them. If you make it totally opaque and seemingly arbitrary, parents will think they can argue their kid in because there's no rhyme or reason to it. Or they will complain to high heaven about it being unfair. Transparency solves this. Schools, and teachers, are often terrible at communication and then blame parents for not understanding. This is my biggest pet peeve with schools because it's a solvable problem. Instead we limp along with dysfunctional systems that make everyone annoyed. |
Absolutely. And sometimes it benefited my kid because she was well liked by the teachers and we were active at the school (we never pressed anyone to choose her, but it was common for the kids if people who volunteered a lot or donated money often to get picked). But it was bad for school culture. It creates resentment and also undermines the kids. It would have been better for my DD to be selected for fewer things but entirely on her merit (and she has plenty of merit). The perception, not inaccurate, that the school was just playing favorites made the culture weird and uncomfortable. |
There’s also the very real problem that some teachers have problems with some kids’ immutable characteristics, or think their job is advancing equity to the benefit of some kids and the costs others. If you can’t explain your criteria, parents are going to quite reasonably suspect there might be something like this going on. You want to see a school self immolate… this is how you do it. |
I don’t doubt that teachers THINK they know this, but like everyone else they are very, very, very often fooled by confirmation bias and implicit racial and gender bias. I know that the HS math teacher who gave me a D wasn’t a very good judge of my potential, and I said as much to the assembled parents, teachers, and admins when I had a chance to say a few words at an awards banquet after being recognized for winning (during the same semester that I earned a D) a statewide math competition. |
CAPE is an awful test. When my kids are older I’ll use AP scores, MAP and PSAT/SAT. I don’t care if my kid is 98th percentile on CAPE, it’s only compared to other DCPS kids anyway. |
Maybe you got a D because you scored low on tests, wasn't engaged in class learning, didn't pay attention in class, didn't complete class work, homework or online work. Surely if you had done all of the above and scored 100% on assessments you would have gotten an A. But then again, seems easier to blame others. |
DCPS ES Math teacher here. The Google competition only allows for one student from each grade level 3rd to 5th. At my school it was a difficult decision as we had many students well-above grade level to choose from. Then there was the team component. Students had to cooperate with each. Could these students from different grades work together? All very hard to know. In the end, we could have selected any of about 6 or 7 students. There was no test. There was no real rubric. We all chose a student who we thought could be successful. Once chosen, the teacher then spent several hours preparing the team with the materials organizers sent. On the day of the competition students,teacher and chaperones were in attendance for about 3 hours. Just wanted to give an insight into teacher perspective. A lot of work so at least three children could compete and have the experience. I wish more could attend. Some schools were unable to even compete as there were only 40 spots over two days and there are over 80 ES in DCPS. |
Yes, people acting like there is one correct group of students to choose and a magic test that will objectively pick them are being ridiculous. |