GF tracking location of daughter

[Anonymous]

Are you rich, OP?

Why does a woman with a grown child need a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I don't have a problem with her keeping it for the emergency purposes or if the kids need it but it goes way more than that. She checks on her several times a day. It looks super weird to me because she would find the location/address of the person her daughter is dating and then google him and try to find out more about him and his family. That is not normal. This also goes with her comment if daughter is spending night with the guy she is dating, etc. I believe she needs to trust her daughter who she choses to date and how she handles and I could also see this in her daughter as being low in confidence and anxious.

In addition, she gets super panicky/anxious if she don't hear from her daughter when she is going to CVS or another store close by and at that time our family or personal time is down the drain.

She's legit crazy. Hard pass.

[Anonymous]

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Shes nuts. I wonder what kind of deep dive she's done on you. Do you let her track you too op like GPS on a dog?

[Anonymous]

So wrong. She is an adult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Each family has their own 'culture' surrounding tracking apps. My parents would never in a million years do this. I don't even track my college kids.

No one should track adult kids. I don’t understand “ I don’t even track my college kids.” I mean, I don’t know who would do that. That seems just crazy to me. The suggestion you make is that other people do this widely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CONTROLLING!!!

Nope! SMART!!!!!!!!

She is 26! That is nuts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's being a mom.
What is the issue with this?
The world is a scary and dangerous place, especially for women.

I am a mom. No way in hell will I ever allow anyone to track me and I will never track my daughters. It is a complete invasion of privacy. I cannot believe this has been normalized.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I don't have a problem with her keeping it for the emergency purposes or if the kids need it but it goes way more than that. She checks on her several times a day. It looks super weird to me because she would find the location/address of the person her daughter is dating and then google him and try to find out more about him and his family. That is not normal. This also goes with her comment if daughter is spending night with the guy she is dating, etc. I believe she needs to trust her daughter who she choses to date and how she handles and I could also see this in her daughter as being low in confidence and anxious.

In addition, she gets super panicky/anxious if she don't hear from her daughter when she is going to CVS or another store close by and at that time our family or personal time is down the drain.

This is so messed up.

[Anonymous]

Imagine what he had probably done on OP. Not only daughter but she is tracking people she's dating. Super controlling! WTH!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you rich, OP?

Why does a woman with a grown child need a boyfriend?

Like anyone else does. People don't need partners only because they want them to take care of kids.

[Anonymous]

We have two young adults. I've never tracked their location. Heck - I don't track share locations with my spouse.

We have an open honest relationship with both. It's not needed for us.

Your GF has issues. Problem stems from being a single mother.

But also none of your business as just the BF and not that child's father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CONTROLLING!!!

Nope! SMART!!!!!!!!

She is 26! That is nuts.

Nope, try again. Also it’s none of your business

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CONTROLLING!!!

Nope! SMART!!!!!!!!

She is 26! That is nuts.

Nope, try again. Also it’s none of your business

You might say it's none of OPs business - but frankly it is. The behavior and obsessive nature of the actions would be a deal breaker for me, and tbh if I were OP, I would tell the daughter because it's sick behavior.

I don't have an opinion on sharing location with your family - but I wouldn't date someone who is checking multiple times a day/freaks out when they can't be located and goes so far as to google and stalk potential dating partners. The behavior is more than odd.

OP - not that you asked but I would end the relationship over this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CONTROLLING!!!

Nope! SMART!!!!!!!!

She is 26! That is nuts.

Nope, try again. Also it’s none of your business

You might say it's none of OPs business - but frankly it is. The behavior and obsessive nature of the actions would be a deal breaker for me, and tbh if I were OP, I would tell the daughter because it's sick behavior.

I don't have an opinion on sharing location with your family - but I wouldn't date someone who is checking multiple times a day/freaks out when they can't be located and goes so far as to google and stalk potential dating partners. The behavior is more than odd.

OP - not that you asked but I would end the relationship over this.

No, I didn’t ask and it is none of his business how she chooses to interact with her daughter. And if my SO insisted that it was, I’d break up with him. What makes you think the daughter doesn’t know or that she doesn’t want her mom to check on her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:CONTROLLING!!!

Nope! SMART!!!!!!!!

She is 26! That is nuts.

Nope, try again. Also it’s none of your business

You might say it's none of OPs business - but frankly it is. The behavior and obsessive nature of the actions would be a deal breaker for me, and tbh if I were OP, I would tell the daughter because it's sick behavior.

I don't have an opinion on sharing location with your family - but I wouldn't date someone who is checking multiple times a day/freaks out when they can't be located and goes so far as to google and stalk potential dating partners. The behavior is more than odd.

OP - not that you asked but I would end the relationship over this.

No, I didn’t ask and it is none of his business how she chooses to interact with her daughter. And if my SO insisted that it was, I’d break up with him. What makes you think the daughter doesn’t know or that she doesn’t want her mom to check on her?

PP here and this was directed to OP. You seem awfully invested and sound like another controlling narcissist.

You think the daughter knows that she checks her location every hour and google stalks her dating partners? HA! I highly doubt it. Keep stalking your kids wierdo.