Divorced girl friends are more attractive than married ones

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want some theories?

1. Attractive women are less afraid to divorce because they are more likely to catch another partner once they’re single.

2. Attractive women have higher self esteem so they’ll leave.

3. Attractive women have low self esteem because they have always been judged by looks so they marry the first guy that is kind to them but end up divorced.

4. Ugly women work harder to keep their husbands happy.

5. Attractive women attract shallow men, making it less likely they’ll have a good relationship.

6. Men who choose attractive women are more likely to be misogynists.

7. Insert random misogynistic reason

100% THIS.

[Anonymous]

I am about to turn 60. It's striking how "badly" my blonde friends have aged compared to the brunettes. I really think this is just an optical illusion though. I think that what's happening is that blondes are given lots of "unjustified credit" for being blonde, meaning that you don't need pretty features to be considered great looking if you're blonde. You just need to have an average face. But as these blondes age, it becomes apparent that they really aren't that pretty. Plus, they're more likely to have the fine lines and spots than any other group and at earlier ages. Once these set in, they look bad in a way that can't be fixed, or at least way worse than their non-blonde counterparts. I recently met the blonde mom of my DC's friend who is my exact age. It was shocking how much older she looks than me. I'm certain that at 25, she would have been considered far more attractive to most men. Today, she looks worn out and haggard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s that the husbands of pretty women tend to be jerks, because they prioritize looks.

+2

The guys that are confident (arrogant) enough to hit on and bag a really good looking woman are usually self-important and/or delusional enough that this carries over into other areas of their lives.

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

Black and jap don’t crack. Just a fact of life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

Black and jap don’t crack. Just a fact of life.

Wrong. Plenty of shattered faces with those backgrounds.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You want some theories?

1. Attractive women are less afraid to divorce because they are more likely to catch another partner once they’re single.

2. Attractive women have higher self esteem so they’ll leave.

3. Attractive women have low self esteem because they have always been judged by looks so they marry the first guy that is kind to them but end up divorced.

4. Ugly women work harder to keep their husbands happy.

5. Attractive women attract shallow men, making it less likely they’ll have a good relationship.

6. Men who choose attractive women are more likely to be misogynists.

7. Insert random misogynistic reason

all interesting theories, but in my experience the vast majority of beautiful and hot women are happily married to non-misogynistic men. fortunately my wife is one of them!

Most men are misogynistic just FYI. Most women carry internalized misogyny too. Unless you know someone who was raised on Mars, that’s just factual.

200%. Matriarchy is the pillar of patriarchy.

Please explain this

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You want some theories?

1. Attractive women are less afraid to divorce because they are more likely to catch another partner once they’re single.

2. Attractive women have higher self esteem so they’ll leave.

3. Attractive women have low self esteem because they have always been judged by looks so they marry the first guy that is kind to them but end up divorced.

4. Ugly women work harder to keep their husbands happy.

5. Attractive women attract shallow men, making it less likely they’ll have a good relationship.

6. Men who choose attractive women are more likely to be misogynists.

7. Insert random misogynistic reason

I agree with 1, 2, and 4. 3 is wrong. 5 and 6 are not accurate, men will always prefer an attractive woman but they settle for less - NP, attractive woman married for decades to the same guy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am about to turn 60. It's striking how "badly" my blonde friends have aged compared to the brunettes. I really think this is just an optical illusion though. I think that what's happening is that blondes are given lots of "unjustified credit" for being blonde, meaning that you don't need pretty features to be considered great looking if you're blonde. You just need to have an average face. But as these blondes age, it becomes apparent that they really aren't that pretty. Plus, they're more likely to have the fine lines and spots than any other group and at earlier ages. Once these set in, they look bad in a way that can't be fixed, or at least way worse than their non-blonde counterparts. I recently met the blonde mom of my DC's friend who is my exact age. It was shocking how much older she looks than me. I'm certain that at 25, she would have been considered far more attractive to most men. Today, she looks worn out and haggard.

How far have your labia dropped?

Are you “she really sits around the house” fat, or merely plus-sized?

Did you cry over your relative ugliness every night from age 8-58, or just every other night?

Can you please show these posts to your child’s friend’s mom and then report back?

😩😩😩😩😩😩

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

How is it misogynistic? It applies to men too. It’s not nasty. It’s really weird this is a sore point for you. White people simply do not have any natural protection from the sun. We show age spots early and wrinkles. Big whoop. Maybe you need to unpack why you think aging skin is so disgusting. I’d rather look old than be dead.

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

How is it misogynistic? It applies to men too. It’s not nasty. It’s really weird this is a sore point for you. White people simply do not have any natural protection from the sun. We show age spots early and wrinkles. Big whoop. Maybe you need to unpack why you think aging skin is so disgusting. I’d rather look old than be dead.

Omg. Women of all races have certain strengths and certain weaknesses. We are not allowed to talk about it for the most part with the exception of white women's weakness, rapidly aging skin, which is discussed ad nauseum on this forum. It's obnoxious.

[Anonymous]

I'm 45 and divorcing. People keep telling me I'm glowing. Interesting, because I'm still wearing jeans and a tee-shirt and no make-up.

Part of it is primal. Your inner cavewoman is like, "Oh no, you might starve to death, put out attractive vibes and see if a caveman will come protect you."

Part of it is depression . . . I didn't choose to lose 40 pounds, I just couldn't eat. Now I'm not depressed but 40 pounds lighter.

Honestly part of it is just the stunning realization that I don't have to smile and nod at anyone if I don't want to. I have lifetime alimony and I don't need to please some fool just to be OK. In fact, some fool is paying me not to please him! So I am free. And naturally, that kind of attitude draws people to you.

I'm in a divorce support group of 6 women and 1 man. I made the mistake of telling the group how the first thing I cried about when he left me was how much I like having sex, and how I guess I'll have to get a part-time boyfriend to solve that problem. The one man (at least 20 years older than me, not in my league at all) was falling over himself to tell me that I will have no problem on the dating market. Here is a woman who just wants sex, and no fuss, and she has money . . . line up gentlemen.

I was like, um sir, obviously I know this already. It's pretty obvious. I never said I had a self-esteem problem. My problem will be picking a worthy man.

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

How is it misogynistic? It applies to men too. It’s not nasty. It’s really weird this is a sore point for you. White people simply do not have any natural protection from the sun. We show age spots early and wrinkles. Big whoop. Maybe you need to unpack why you think aging skin is so disgusting. I’d rather look old than be dead.

Read some theory, you self-hating idiot. When you make the patriarchal valuation on their behalf, it’s misogynistic FFS.

PP is also correct. If we ranted about traction alopecia, morbid obesity rates, melasma, cystic acne, dark circles, and other “afflictions” more common with other complexions, that wouldn’t be smiled at.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

How is it misogynistic? It applies to men too. It’s not nasty. It’s really weird this is a sore point for you. White people simply do not have any natural protection from the sun. We show age spots early and wrinkles. Big whoop. Maybe you need to unpack why you think aging skin is so disgusting. I’d rather look old than be dead.

Omg. Women of all races have certain strengths and certain weaknesses. We are not allowed to talk about it for the most part with the exception of white women's weakness, rapidly aging skin, which is discussed ad nauseum on this forum. It's obnoxious.

I thought race was a social construct?

I actually believe that. It’s just true that melanin helps you age better. Nobody cares though. I don’t think anyone is walking around thinking that’s some valuable piece of information.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty white women really suffer post menopause. They go from being on top of the world to being almost invisible. In terms of physical attraction, aging is easier for Asian, black, Latinaz middle Eastern women.

Not even close to true, but keep telling yourself that.

It's about genetics overall, but not just "race". You are just trolling for racism.

NP. I would have said it’s about overall care and lifestyle- it starts to catch up. But if you are going to say genetics than PP has a point. We are used to seeing aging on white people. Non-white people age too but since it’s not as commonly understood, people don’t focus on those details as much. (Eg, melasma versus wrinkles).

White is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.
Hispanic is not a homogenious group genetically speaking, racist.
Black is not a homogenous group genetically speaking, racist.

NP. Chill. The more melanated you are, the more youthful you look compared to lighter skinned people as you age. But I will say I don’t know how pale Asians do it. Not that much melanin but they also stay out of the sun their whole lives whereas whites in western society tan purposely all the time. Genes are a thing.
Signed, middle aged white lady who knows I don’t look as youthful as my Black and Asian friends.

NP. Just STFU and stop supporting this misogynistic sh!t. You’re not cooler or more progressive for shitting on white women. You’re just a loser. I live in a diverse UMC city neighborhood and see plenty of busted East Asian and Black women, but I won’t go out of my way to gin up nasty stuff about that.

How is it misogynistic? It applies to men too. It’s not nasty. It’s really weird this is a sore point for you. White people simply do not have any natural protection from the sun. We show age spots early and wrinkles. Big whoop. Maybe you need to unpack why you think aging skin is so disgusting. I’d rather look old than be dead.

Read some theory, you self-hating idiot. When you make the patriarchal valuation on their behalf, it’s misogynistic FFS.

PP is also correct. If we ranted about traction alopecia, morbid obesity rates, melasma, cystic acne, dark circles, and other “afflictions” more common with other complexions, that wouldn’t be smiled at.

Lol. Luckily I don’t hate myself because I have wrinkles. If this judgment works across sexes, why is it patriarchal? I was probably an intersectional feminist before you were born but go ahead and argue with strangers in the internet to prove your $150k BA in gender studies was worth it. Whomp whomp.