Women in your 40s, what's your age limit filter set to?

[Anonymous]

Plus or minus five years and I’m 44. But last year I did have a fling with a 29 year old. He had a tremendous body and I figured why not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

You are just a MILF to him.

[Anonymous]

I am 46. Currently dating a 38 year old for the last 6 months. I think my filters might be at 35-50. Older men who are single tend to either have commitment issues or mental health issues, unfortunately.

I don’t really prefer to date so young but this person is unusually mature for his age. And there are pluses… he’s energetic, passionate, and very gentle/ emotionally intelligent. I am enjoying this so much. It is totally different than any connection I’ve had with a man my age or older.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I appear very young according to coworkers who keep asking my age. I'm 43. I'm not white. I never dated older than me. Ever. Always 10 or a few years younger than me. I see Mom's with infants and the moms always look a decade older than me.

😩

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 46. Currently dating a 38 year old for the last 6 months. I think my filters might be at 35-50. Older men who are single tend to either have commitment issues or mental health issues, unfortunately.

I don’t really prefer to date so young but this person is unusually mature for his age. And there are pluses… he’s energetic, passionate, and very gentle/ emotionally intelligent. pop I am enjoying this so much. It is totally different than any connection I’ve had with a man my age or older.

Would that 36 year old same
The same about you ?

[Anonymous]

Say^

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

I have 30s men and even 29-year-olds who want to date me. I am turning 38. At least 6 people text me in a regular basis. I look younger than my ages. Two people I was with for more than a year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

You are just a MILF to him.

Not that poster but who cares? She literally said it is fine if he lasts a few months.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

I have 30s men and even 29-year-olds who want to date me. I am turning 38. At least 6 people text me in a regular basis. I look younger than my ages. Two people I was with for more than a year.

I am the poster above. I mistyped. I am turning 48 (not 38).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

I have 30s men and even 29-year-olds who want to date me. I am turning 38. At least 6 people text me in a regular basis. I look younger than my ages. Two people I was with for more than a year.

I am the poster above. I mistyped. I am turning 48 (not 38).

They are certainly beta males who have been rejected by young females.
A real alpha 29/30 year old male would never settle for a 48 year old grandma.

[Anonymous]

Personally, like 5+ or minus I don’t wanna date someone too far apart from me in a generation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, and my age range is 30-60. I’m currently casually seeing a 36 y.o., and it’s been very enjoyable thus far. A few days ago I went on a date with a 58 y.o. man, and he is so much looking for serious, committed relationship, started planning our future life together on the first date and then sent me a message saying how he would want to pour all his energies, heart and soul into me, but he would need the same in return. I’d rather keep dating the guys in their 30s, much less demanding.

I don’t know any guy in their 30s who would date old 48yo women.

I agree it’s not the majority but I need only one man at a time. The 36 y.o. that I’m seeing said that he is very attracted to me. When he invited me on a third date, I asked how much he wants to see me, and he said 153/10 or maybe more. He is smart, funny, and handsome, and that’s fine if it lasts just for a few months.

I have 30s men and even 29-year-olds who want to date me. I am turning 38. At least 6 people text me in a regular basis. I look younger than my ages. Two people I was with for more than a year.

I am the poster above. I mistyped. I am turning 48 (not 38).

They are certainly beta males who have been rejected by young females.
A real alpha 29/30 year old male would never settle for a 48 year old grandma.

Anyone calling themselves an alpha (even inside their mind), isn’t.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 42 and my filters are 37-49. I strongly prefer men within 3 years of my age, either way, and all of my lifelong relationships have fallen with that range. I’m retiring at 50 and fit relative to my peers, and would also like to avoid being homebound due to an aging spouse. My only kid goes off to college in a couple of years. I basically target divorced dads in a similar stage of life.

Divorced dads will have much younger kids than you. I’m 47 yo empty nester and most men in their 40s have kids in primary and middle school. Realistically professional men become empty nesters by mid 50s.
It’s a trade off between dating someone who is almost never available on weekends and an older man in his mid 50s.
I find it very problematic dating men jn 40-50s, so I do get it when women just go for younger single men hookups . Divorced older men with kids still at home don’t have much to offer and no time to build a relationship

+1. Also 47 but my kids are 11 and 13. My ex-husband is almost 52 and he will not be an empty nester until he is 60. Men in their 40s usually have a little kids or middle school kids. They’re not divorced empty-nesters.

PP here who is 42. I don't mind younger (or older kids), as long as they're roughly ages 8 and above. I've tended to attract more ex-military, defense contracting types and fortunately those guys often married and had kids younger as well. I have relatively young parents, so I've never been attracted to older men at any age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Personally, like 5+ or minus I don’t wanna date someone too far apart from me in a generation.

+1. I'm sooo with you here.