Boyfriend is very private

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How long have you been together? Have you seen each other naked? Is he conservative, religious? Does he work out a lot so he needs to shower?
My DH was in the military and played sports in HS and college he never closed a door from day one...for anything. Once he set that tone, I went with it. Are you equally private with closed doors?

About 6 months. I’ve seen him fully naked a million times during sex. We have a lot of sex. He isn’t religious and is an independent. He works out once a day but showers in the morning after a workout, after work, and sometimes before bed. I’m private when I go to the bathroom but that’s it. He doesn’t shower in front of me, shave, pee, etc.

Like a quick rinse or a full fledged shower, shampoo, soap up? Only for summer or every day of the year? Weird. Ask him what’s up- that’s not good for your skin either to shower many times a day.

Quick rinse. He said he likes to wash the day off of him. He showers in the morning and does his hair after his workout. Showers when he gets home
( he’s a doctor), and sometimes before bed. Those are both quick rinses.

Grow up and troll on Reddit

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:why do you feel entitled to watching him pee and shower, Op?

Another dense moron. I never said I was interested in watching him pee or entitled to it.

Babes you literally wrote a thread based on that sentiment. Did your troll brain malfunction and forget your premise?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been together? Have you seen each other naked? Is he conservative, religious? Does he work out a lot so he needs to shower?
My DH was in the military and played sports in HS and college he never closed a door from day one...for anything. Once he set that tone, I went with it. Are you equally private with closed doors?

About 6 months. I’ve seen him fully naked a million times during sex. We have a lot of sex. He isn’t religious and is an independent. He works out once a day but showers in the morning after a workout, after work, and sometimes before bed. I’m private when I go to the bathroom but that’s it. He doesn’t shower in front of me, shave, pee, etc.

Like a quick rinse or a full fledged shower, shampoo, soap up? Only for summer or every day of the year? Weird. Ask him what’s up- that’s not good for your skin either to shower many times a day.

Quick rinse. He said he likes to wash the day off of him. He showers in the morning and does his hair after his workout. Showers when he gets home
( he’s a doctor), and sometimes before bed. Those are both quick rinses.

Grow up and troll on Reddit

mmhm op ihas now switched troll personalities to mean and nasty because they weren't getting enough attention with their original nonsense

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:why do you feel entitled to watching him pee and shower, Op?

I agree, watching him pee is strange - I've been married 20 years and she's never seen that. But showering is different - and showering together is hot.

the only time I was interested in seeing a guy pee was with the first guy I was with ever it was all new to me, so I watched once and I was over it. Definitely don't feel like it's something that has to be shared . Same with showering. I'm generally a shower is me time person, but movies etc mad showering together seem so romantic and hot I dd not find that to be the case in reality. maybe if done as a pre or post sex activity vs trying to get clean it might be fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been together? Have you seen each other naked? Is he conservative, religious? Does he work out a lot so he needs to shower?
My DH was in the military and played sports in HS and college he never closed a door from day one...for anything. Once he set that tone, I went with it. Are you equally private with closed doors?

About 6 months. I’ve seen him fully naked a million times during sex. We have a lot of sex. He isn’t religious and is an independent. He works out once a day but showers in the morning after a workout, after work, and sometimes before bed. I’m private when I go to the bathroom but that’s it. He doesn’t shower in front of me, shave, pee, etc.

Nothing unusual except he showers too much.
Ask him about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been together? Have you seen each other naked? Is he conservative, religious? Does he work out a lot so he needs to shower?
My DH was in the military and played sports in HS and college he never closed a door from day one...for anything. Once he set that tone, I went with it. Are you equally private with closed doors?

About 6 months. I’ve seen him fully naked a million times during sex. We have a lot of sex. He isn’t religious and is an independent. He works out once a day but showers in the morning after a workout, after work, and sometimes before bed. I’m private when I go to the bathroom but that’s it. He doesn’t shower in front of me, shave, pee, etc.

Nothing unusual except he showers too much.
Ask him about that.

He showers after he works out and then he rinsed off after work because he's a doctor. That's pretty normal for a lot of people who work in hospitals.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:why do you feel entitled to watching him pee and shower, Op?

Another dense moron. I never said I was interested in watching him pee or entitled to it.

Babes you literally wrote a thread based on that sentiment. Did your troll brain malfunction and forget your premise?

Lol

[Anonymous]

I shower 2x/day now.

I used to only shower daily but now that I am older, a F who has put on some weight w/menopause and the weather is hotter two showers 🚿 a day makes me feel my best.

I typically shower when I wake up, just a quick one to wake up primarily.

Then a more in-depth wash after work or before bed to wash the day’s sweat/dirt off.

How can anyone say this is all too much??