A lot of these schools are top programs - not enough spots for all of the players who want to be in their program. Seize the moment if it’s the right fit. |
RU has a girl going to Virginia Tech. |
Link? |
I will admit this here since it is anonymous but I feel like my family is going into this whole recruiting thing clueless. I thought my DD might hear from some schools eventually but I didn’t really realize that we would start being contacted by schools yesterday. And I am trying to explain to a 16 year old even if you have no interest in that school- you need to respond to the coach and be gracious. |
It’s on their personal soccer accounts. No one is that creepy on DCUM to post it here hopefully. |
It's not that crazy when you account for when girls hit puberty and when they're done growing. From a coaching standpoint max height is likely determined. Technical base is also established. As much as people joke about U11 girls with social media pages, things start really early on the girl's side and you're likely on your path by U15. |
Yeah, I hear you. It's a lot, especially not ever having done this before. And that is even after talking to other parents in the club who had their DDs work through this as well. I was helping my DD put together emails to send to coaches of schools that she does not have interest. She initial effort did not quite have the gracious part in it. LOL. My DS is 19 and heading into his sophomore year of college. His experience was fill out the common app at the last minute. Pick a couple of states schools to visit and make a decision on the last day. Very, very different than this! |
https://x.com/imyouthsoccer/status/1935351802687336456?s=46 |
Is there a (girls) college recruiting 101 post around here anywhere? Or any suggested resources? |
I would start with https://rlopezcoaching.com/blog/ |
There are a lot of girls that quit soccer between u11 and u15. Even more that just aren't as good at u15 than they were at u11. So starting early isn't necessarily good. |
I have no problem with girls that want to commit early. For my dd, though, I'm glad she did the visits when she went through this process.
She had a lot of interest from top schools, including what was her dream school growing up. But on that visit, she said she realized she couldn't really picture herself going to that college. It was too familiar to her and she wanted something different. Plus the coach was just weird one-on-one and the vibe amongst the team was also strange. The coaches sat together at the dinner, then the parents sat together and the players on the visit sorta sat with the athletes. DD was also there with her "competition" so that was weird, too. Very different from some other visits she took. At the other visits, she was the only athlete visiting so there was a lot of red-carpet treatment, which was nice. |
Complete outsider - how do grades work with these "commitments" summer before Junior year? I'm assuming they still need to keep up some semblance of academic progress for the following 2 years? |
I think it sort of depends. They need your transcripts asap. And yes, the players need to keep up their grades. But we know some players who were told to take more AP courses, etc. which didn't happen to my DD. |
Honestly I hate the answer that girls must be ECNL or GA by grade 10. There are lots of different flavors of both sets of teams. Some RL can beat some NL. If you are a great player with great film, go to camps and do the work. You never know. That’s what my DD is banking on, anyway. Look at BSC: how many national ID camp girls do they have for U14 and up? And even national team youth players? And pro academy? No one new is breaking into those teams in 10th grade, let’s be real. |