Married with regular virtual sex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You’re going to end up on PH where your kids teacher finds it and the whole school finds out.

what's ph

I think this user is talking about p0rnhub…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating is cheating. I’d absolutely feel “obliterated” if I found out my DH was doing this behind my back.

If you’re a s***ty person just own it. Leave your spouse. Divorce is ALWAYS an option, just the lazy selfish AHs who’d rather cheat are the ones who say otherwise.

Divorce is not always an option. There are people who cannot have sex and have no intimacy with their spouse for various reasons, I'm not talking about someone who just doesn't want to either. Sometimes seeking love and affection outside the marriage is the best option for both parties believe it or not. Hopefully you aren't too dense to understand how that works. It often has nothing to do with being lazy selfish a'holes at all. Do you see literally everything in black and white?

Nothing you said makes divorce “not an option”. Excuses excuses. Be a sh**ty person, idgaf. But you aren’t fooling anyone by pretending this is some super speshul situation. You’re a cheater. That’s it, that’s all. Why try to deny it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is cheating. I’d absolutely feel “obliterated” if I found out my DH was doing this behind my back.

If you’re a s***ty person just own it. Leave your spouse. Divorce is ALWAYS an option, just the lazy selfish AHs who’d rather cheat are the ones who say otherwise.

Divorce is not always an option. There are people who cannot have sex and have no intimacy with their spouse for various reasons, I'm not talking about someone who just doesn't want to either. Sometimes seeking love and affection outside the marriage is the best option for both parties believe it or not. Hopefully you aren't too dense to understand how that works. It often has nothing to do with being lazy selfish a'holes at all. Do you see literally everything in black and white?

If you love and respect someone, you don't lie to them. That's it.

What if your spouse is chronically ill with not only physical issues but also impaired mental capacity and you are their caretaker for nobody knows how many years into the future. What if you are not old but in your own midlife with this life and future to deal with. You may think this is rare but it is not, many people are in this situation. Should they not seek comfort outside the relationship for the occasional respite from this life? Should they be cruelly honest with the ill spouse about what they are doing? What would you have them do, I'm curious.

Are you the person who posted before Xmas about cheating on your ill spouse? Your ILs are paying all your bills to care for said spouse and you don’t want to lose your cash cow, so you’ve just decided to cheat on them instead?

Sounds like you are the lazy AH. You’d rather not work and have your spouses ILs keep paying you and you have your lil side piece. Instead of caring for your spouse you’re out cheating. Nice.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My former AP made me feel very desired. But, turn out to be that she would also do the same to other men. Played being a victim at home. After a few months now, clearly that was not the case. Sadly, she is a predator. Be careful out there.

Was she a predator? Why on Earth would you expect fidelity from a person you are having an AFFAIR with? That is so bizarre.

I guess you are right. She lied to me a lot, I believed her. Dropped her later, she did not like that. But then, I could see all the lies.

How terrible of her to lie to you, GUY WHO WAS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE.

😂😂😂
It’s always the cheaters that are the real victims amirite 🙄 the lack of self awareness is astounding with these people. I’m so glad I have better morals than some of the pps who post here. I’d not be able to live such a disgusting lying double life.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My former AP made me feel very desired. But, turn out to be that she would also do the same to other men. Played being a victim at home. After a few months now, clearly that was not the case. Sadly, she is a predator. Be careful out there.

Was she a predator? Why on Earth would you expect fidelity from a person you are having an AFFAIR with? That is so bizarre.

I guess you are right. She lied to me a lot, I believed her. Dropped her later, she did not like that. But then, I could see all the lies.

How terrible of her to lie to you, GUY WHO WAS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE.

😂😂😂
It’s always the cheaters that are the real victims amirite 🙄 the lack of self awareness is astounding with these people. I’m so glad I have better morals than some of the pps who post here. I’d not be able to live such a disgusting lying double life.

Pp you are responding to and I do not think cheaters are ax murderers or whatever but the AUDACITY to complain about the integrity of the woman you are cheating on your wife with… come on now…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is cheating. I’d absolutely feel “obliterated” if I found out my DH was doing this behind my back.

If you’re a s***ty person just own it. Leave your spouse. Divorce is ALWAYS an option, just the lazy selfish AHs who’d rather cheat are the ones who say otherwise.

Divorce is not always an option. There are people who cannot have sex and have no intimacy with their spouse for various reasons, I'm not talking about someone who just doesn't want to either. Sometimes seeking love and affection outside the marriage is the best option for both parties believe it or not. Hopefully you aren't too dense to understand how that works. It often has nothing to do with being lazy selfish a'holes at all. Do you see literally everything in black and white?

If you love and respect someone, you don't lie to them. That's it.

What if your spouse is chronically ill with not only physical issues but also impaired mental capacity and you are their caretaker for nobody knows how many years into the future. What if you are not old but in your own midlife with this life and future to deal with. You may think this is rare but it is not, many people are in this situation. Should they not seek comfort outside the relationship for the occasional respite from this life? Should they be cruelly honest with the ill spouse about what they are doing? What would you have them do, I'm curious.

Are you the person who posted before Xmas about cheating on your ill spouse? Your ILs are paying all your bills to care for said spouse and you don’t want to lose your cash cow, so you’ve just decided to cheat on them instead?

Sounds like you are the lazy AH. You’d rather not work and have your spouses ILs keep paying you and you have your lil side piece. Instead of caring for your spouse you’re out cheating. Nice.

Somebody is definitely an a**hole here but it isn't me. I am acutely aware of a situation like this but it is not me who is cheating on anybody. You are a judgmental douche bag and I couldn't care less what you think. You can deny that many people are in this situation and must agonize with possible solutions but the truth is there even if you are too stupid to grasp it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is cheating. I’d absolutely feel “obliterated” if I found out my DH was doing this behind my back.

If you’re a s***ty person just own it. Leave your spouse. Divorce is ALWAYS an option, just the lazy selfish AHs who’d rather cheat are the ones who say otherwise.

Divorce is not always an option. There are people who cannot have sex and have no intimacy with their spouse for various reasons, I'm not talking about someone who just doesn't want to either. Sometimes seeking love and affection outside the marriage is the best option for both parties believe it or not. Hopefully you aren't too dense to understand how that works. It often has nothing to do with being lazy selfish a'holes at all. Do you see literally everything in black and white?

If you love and respect someone, you don't lie to them. That's it.

What if your spouse is chronically ill with not only physical issues but also impaired mental capacity and you are their caretaker for nobody knows how many years into the future. What if you are not old but in your own midlife with this life and future to deal with. You may think this is rare but it is not, many people are in this situation. Should they not seek comfort outside the relationship for the occasional respite from this life? Should they be cruelly honest with the ill spouse about what they are doing? What would you have them do, I'm curious.

Are you the person who posted before Xmas about cheating on your ill spouse? Your ILs are paying all your bills to care for said spouse and you don’t want to lose your cash cow, so you’ve just decided to cheat on them instead?

Sounds like you are the lazy AH. You’d rather not work and have your spouses ILs keep paying you and you have your lil side piece. Instead of caring for your spouse you’re out cheating. Nice.

Somebody is definitely an a**hole here but it isn't me. I am acutely aware of a situation like this but it is not me who is cheating on anybody. You are a judgmental douche bag and I couldn't care less what you think. You can deny that many people are in this situation and must agonize with possible solutions but the truth is there even if you are too stupid to grasp it.

Cheater say what? 👂