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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheating is cheating. I’d absolutely feel “obliterated” if I found out my DH was doing this behind my back.

If you’re a s***ty person just own it. Leave your spouse. Divorce is ALWAYS an option, just the lazy selfish AHs who’d rather cheat are the ones who say otherwise.[/quote]

Divorce is not always an option.  There are people who cannot have sex and have no intimacy with their spouse for various reasons, I'm not talking about someone who just doesn't want to either.  Sometimes seeking love and affection outside the marriage is the best option for both parties believe it or not.  Hopefully you aren't too dense to understand how that works.  It often has nothing to do with being lazy selfish a'holes at all.  Do you see literally everything in black and white?[/quote]

If you love and respect someone,  you don't lie to them.   That's it.  [/quote]

What if your spouse is chronically ill with not only physical issues but also impaired mental capacity and you are their caretaker for nobody knows how many years into the future.  What if you are not old but in your own midlife with this life and future to deal with.  You may think this is rare but it is not, many people are in this situation.  Should they not seek comfort outside the relationship for the occasional respite from this life?  Should they be cruelly honest with the ill spouse about what they are doing?  What would you have them do, I'm curious.[/quote]
Are you the person who posted before Xmas about cheating on your ill spouse? Your ILs are paying all your bills to care for said spouse and you don’t want to lose your cash cow, so you’ve just decided to cheat on them instead?

Sounds like you are the lazy AH. You’d rather not work and have your spouses ILs keep paying you and you have your lil side piece. Instead of caring for your spouse you’re out cheating. Nice.[/quote]

Somebody is definitely an a**hole here but it isn't me.  I am acutely aware of a situation like this but it is not me who is cheating on anybody.  You are a judgmental douche bag and I couldn't care less what you think.  You can deny that many people are in this situation and must agonize with possible solutions but the truth is there even if you are too stupid to grasp it.[/quote]

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