| I don’t know if this is a real question? But girls absolutely talk smack during tryouts. From directly saying “you suck” to loudly criticizing appearances while talking to friends/teammates. Girls are mean, not Arlington specifically. |
This is not being mean, it's called a double standard. You'd never tell a boy he's being mean if he's doing this. |
| That why I was asking what does "mean" look like in this context. Thank to PP I didn't realize they were trash talking each other. Thats actually kinda funny LOL |
And that's called gamesmanship and it exists in both genders. Should be discussed and handled as ethics in sports and not as a gender-based flaw. Girls can strive to be good people but they don't have to be "nice" and not "mean". |
And to agree with the subject OP - yes, grow thicker skin and beat them on the field! |
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So is being highly comperitive considered being mean?
From what I witnessed, I didnt see anything mean. I saw girls trying to compete to keep position. Sounds like internal whining due to their kid being outplayed. Toughen up buttercup |
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This email was sent to all Arlington ECNL families this morning.
Dear Families, In light of the recent changes and movement in the area and negative rumors being spread by some, we want to reassure you that our club remains committed to the highest level of competition and development for our players. We will continue to participate in the ECNL league, as we firmly believe it offers the best platform for our players to grow, compete, and reach their fullest potential. Our focus has always been and will continue to be on providing our players with the opportunities, resources, and guidance they need to succeed both on and off the field. We are confident that staying within the ECNL will provide the competitive environment and exposure necessary to help each player thrive. Thank you for your continued support, and we look forward to an exciting future together. Arlington Soccer |
GA confirmed |
For next year year. Lol. This is too save everyone from jumping ship now |
Does this mean they chose the girls program over boys? |
| If you’re looking for a watered down northern Virginia soccer league choose GA—or GA Aspire (2nd tier) like McLean offers. If you want college recruitment opportunities going forward then choose ECNL. |
Jokes. This means they missed the deadline for this year. |
This entire thing about playing in college is getting old. If your good your good. I bet you the parent on the sidelines who blames everyone else but yourself. |
| Any boys offers out yet? |
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If your DD doesn’t care about playing in college no problem. She can have a fun time at any club. But if she MAY want to play in college, there is no better option to keeping that door of opportunity open than playing for an ECNL team.
College coaches want to remain employed and they can only do that if they can identify and recruit the best talent—like any good company. ECNL is their deepest talent pool. |