TO kid here, unhooked and not in top 10%. Admitted to 3 IVYs. |
Is this the kid that sold his company and donated the $50,000 to charity? You post this on every thread . |
I agree. When you add up all the costs of the whole application process, including application fees, test fees, and fees to send scores (and I'm not counting people who pay for test prep and pay for private counselors), its hundreds of dollars, and most kids end up at a very predictable school where had they just admitted that was the likely result, they would have saved enough money to cover the cost of college books. If you qualify for fee waivers, have at it and throw everything at the wall, but if you are paying for the whole process -- ED to a target and be done with it. |
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Reach for my kid was only in the sense of 3-5% acceptance rates. He had the straight As, rigor, 35 ACT, 5s all AP exams and well-rounded ecs.
He did well RD. In at 2 Ivies, Hopkins and several T15/20s. We still call them “reach”, merely based on selectivity—not reaching for schools above gpa/scores. |
Same for us. I hope y’all get good news! |
| Eh, we have the money and the time. My senior is competitive enough so they want to shoot their shot. I support it. |
Exactly. You really don’t know what the story is until your applications are completed and really when the results come. If your student is accepted to several high reaches, were they actually high reaches? And perhaps your reaches are actually targets. |
100% |
Wholeheartedly agree. These schools send an endless stream of emails and flyers to these kids too enticing them repeatedly to apply. Usually based on maybe a PSAT score? I don't know. Lesson learned for my next kid. |
Ok, this would be good advice except that most schools don't have an ED option and lots of people need to make financial comparisons |
Totally agree with this. |
| ITA with the OP. My first kid ED's a target and it was the best decision ever. Second kid will be trickier because technically he'll probably meet the stats to consider applying to Ivies and the like. But with a 4% admission rate, why bother? It's so tempting for every kid or parent to think they will be the one, but most of the time (from public schools) they aren't. |
DD got the same email from Columbia. But I read it as “the first application deadline has passed, but there’s still time to apply to Columbia.” Maybe the UChicago note was worded differently… |
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Agree with OP in that so many people get wrapped up in the prestige of the “reach” that they don’t stop to question the costs you outlined in your post. That said, if you are a top student with top stats and one of these T10 schools is your dream school, it is worth the effort. T10 is a reach for everyone and people need to be a lot more realistic about who applies in the first place. Only apply if you are truly exceptional and you truly want to go. Don’t do it for grandpa or for vanity or whatever.
DS1 with excellent stats etc absolutely loved those zany UChi questions and it truly was his dream school. He was meh on other “top schools.” He applied and was accepted ED at U Chicago. DS2 had very high stats as well but viewed “top schools” differently schools—nice places where he might want to go if he got in but wasn’t worth making himself crazy over. DS2 applied to a range of schools with the reaches being well known SLACs. He got into most, rejected/WL at two others. DSs had different approaches and experiences but they both were remarkably clear eyed in what they wanted and what to expect so it was fine. And they both ended up at places they love and did/are doing great. |
Is putting your kid on the best possible path not worth “hundreds of dollars?” How cheap are you? I get the absurdity of a not so high stats student chasing the impossible but if reaches are viable, even if low probability, why not pay the $60 fee? No risk it, no biscuit! |