Do very attractive men lie about their body count?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well.

I believe looking for better is more common with women who cheat. It seems they always cheat with someone who is richer or more attractive or maybe hotter in bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses.

It would be wise for you to throw your friend back in the dating pool. Short temper at the dating stage becomes a large scale abuse and cheating after 10 years of marriage and kids. Ask me how I know

[Anonymous]

I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Nah! The bride’s mom is kinda hot. But her sisters are a bit flat chested with zero personality.

317 is the maid of honor. Can’t wait to take her honor!

318 is a 3rd cousin

319 might be the wedding planner. She can’t even talk straight whenever I’m around.

320 well we shall see.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Nah! The bride’s mom is kinda hot. But her sisters are a bit flat chested with zero personality.

317 is the maid of honor. Can’t wait to take her honor!

318 is a 3rd cousin

319 might be the wedding planner. She can’t even talk straight whenever I’m around.

320 well we shall see.

You must be ugly. Attractive men don’t talk like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Nah! The bride’s mom is kinda hot. But her sisters are a bit flat chested with zero personality.

317 is the maid of honor. Can’t wait to take her honor!

318 is a 3rd cousin

319 might be the wedding planner. She can’t even talk straight whenever I’m around.

320 well we shall see.

Just do the multiples and be done with that

[Anonymous]

My count was low (5) until my wife had an affair. She was careless and I found out. She begged me not to divorce her. We went to therapy. Turns out she loves dominant men. I got her good. I hate F’d her multiple times. She is submissive now. But she broke my trust and faith in women. And now my count is up to 23 including her sister!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses.

Get out while you can, what are you thinking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My count was low (5) until my wife had an affair. She was careless and I found out. She begged me not to divorce her. We went to therapy. Turns out she loves dominant men. I got her good. I hate F’d her multiple times. She is submissive now. But she broke my trust and faith in women. And now my count is up to 23 including her sister!

No, you still don’t get her. Being dominant is not a hate f…k

[Anonymous]

They lost count and made up a number.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.

That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8

-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish

Which is why women can only protect themselves by asking to take std test before having sex.

Let these make w..res hire prostitutes instead of using OLD for free sex

Why are you so angry at men? Is it because they have no interest in you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not scum meant DCUM

Meeeeh you got us figured out. 🫢

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well.

I believe looking for better is more common with women who cheat. It seems they always cheat with someone who is richer or more attractive or maybe hotter in bed.

+1.

That is why you can never forgive a woman who cheats. Men will bang anything and have zero attachment. Women only get on their backs for men they care about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've only known men to either be too honest or just lie about it. I had a friend in grad school who picked 9 as his number to tell people. I have no idea what the real number was.

My husband was not a player and I'm pretty sure he slept with more women than 8

My DH lied and said 4.

Over the years his stories started to add up to much more than that. But he’s a good DH now and has settled down since his wild oats days