53 YO DH here. More on the “very attractive” side than not and my count is 1. Happily together since our fourth semester of college and married for 30 years, but I think if I could go back and do HS and early college again, my count would have been higher. |
Nah, just someone who doesn't use low class terms like body count. |
| This post is so dumb |
I'm over 40 say body count and date men in their 30s |
They never talk about that on here. We lost a nephew who ended up with an aids related cancer. My friend died of HPV cancer, he married the very promiscuous bar tender. |
"HPV throat cancer" to be clearer |
| 55 yo male. Body count is 12. Married 24 years. Most of it is from graduate business school of all places. One regret is I never took anyone's virginity. Bothers me to this day. But 98% of my sexual experience has been enjoyable so I guess everyone has qualms about something? |
It’s misogynistic af. Also grandma’s number is not low and grandpa has never asked nor cared about it, nor I his. Grow up, Skippy. |
^ future Chester |
It seems to be anyone that would use the term body account doesn’t feel confident in their sexual acumen or skills. It’s for folks that have lower self esteem and need to posture/compare notes. I do not. |
A friend on mine got cervix cancer after catching HPV 18 in her 30s while dating. She was sleeping with men on date 3 and never asked for tests. She’s still single into her 40s, it was all for nothing. And since she also caught herpes nobody wants to date her now. She lost a job and is miserable. |
| As a guy, I’ve bever been asked about my number. That said, I’m a pretty good looking guy and my number is 8ish. |
After reading this thread, I now believe whenever I hear a guy say 8ish it means 50-100. |
She got what she deserved |
The issue is that every guy lies. Some lie up. It is 3 but that sounds awful when you are 27 so you say 8. Some lie in the other direction 45 but that is too high so you say 8. 8 is the number guys think a woman would find ok -- some experience but not crazy. Women lie also IMO. But they say 5 if they can get away with it. An ex knew I knew what she did in college so her number was 18. No way that number was right but I knew that. |