Which is why women can only protect themselves by asking to take std test before having sex. Let these make w..res hire prostitutes instead of using OLD for free sex |
*male |
| Ask their current sdt test results if that is your concern. I don't think they will tell you the true numbers if the numbers are high. |
| Why do you care? |
As a woman, I do care to meet someone stable who prioritizes connection There is an extensive research that promiscuous people are less relationship stable |
Unless you were married for 25 years, no one believes you. |
| of course they're lying op come on! |
gross. just gross. Have a little self restraint. |
Exactly! Woman are the truly nasty ones because they are sleeping around with any old Joe they find on apps. Married and giving up both their holes or their three holes of you count their mouth to any man they find hot Even if they are married or partnered |
| Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated. |
Not necessarily. |
I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time. I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids |
I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well. |
| Body count is only important as someone interested in casual sex wouldn't be a good match for me. My concern is how many women a potential partner has been in love with and whether they are not over any of them. I don't want to emotionally share someone. |
I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses. |