DD texting random guys she "met" on tiktok

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Anonymous wrote:I love how much time you devoted to the fact that she said the B word
FFS

Take the phone away please so you don't end up a dateline story

+1 My 10 year old DS just got pissed at me because I wouldn't allow him to get direct messages from his friend at school on Roblox. Oh well. I told him very honestly that if I did what he asked, he would have no control over pervs and bullies contacting him. You make the smart parenting choice and let them rage. Then give them a choice. You either have the phone on my terms, or you have nothing. They will choose to have the phone on your terms. Why is this so hard?

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TikTok is so toxic!

Why do any sane parents allow it??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrifying and I agree 100% with posters who advise you to confiscate her phone immediately.
She gets a basic non-internet connected phone if anything. And that’s it for at least six months.
And also thank you for posting this, OP. Sincerely. It prompted me to have a check-in with my 15 and 17 year old DDs just to reiterate expectations and confirm that they only communicate online with people they already know directly and in person from school or other activities. No friends of friends and certainly no random follows. Instagrams are both set to private and they are cautious about confirming followers and choosy about following. They don’t have TikTok or Snapchat (at first because we said no and now because they have seen that negatives outweigh any benefits and they just don’t want it).

It’s a scary world out there.

You have no idea what they’re doing behind your back so naive

The fact that kids might sneak and still do things behind our back doesn’t mean we just throw our hands up and refuse to address the problems right out in the open in front of us. Be a real parent.

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I have teen boys but in the grand scheme of what teenage girls are doing, this seems not that big of a deal. Of course you should stop it but teens could be drinking, doing drugs and already having sex.

And calling mom a b probably happens in real life too.

I have a 7 year old DD and I told her she is getting a flip phone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have teen boys but in the grand scheme of what teenage girls are doing, this seems not that big of a deal. Of course you should stop it but teens could be drinking, doing drugs and already having sex.

And calling mom a b probably happens in real life too.

I have a 7 year old DD and I told her she is getting a flip phone.

I meant a flip phone when she is a teenager.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

Well here is the answer. Grandpa gave her the phone, pays for the phone, and now he wants to take the phone. So give the phone to Grandpa. Duh.

+100

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have teen boys but in the grand scheme of what teenage girls are doing, this seems not that big of a deal. Of course you should stop it but teens could be drinking, doing drugs and already having sex.

And calling mom a b probably happens in real life too.

I have a 7 year old DD and I told her she is getting a flip phone.

I meant a flip phone when she is a teenager.

My 11yo has a flip phone and actually her friends are jealous of the phone lol