DD texting random guys she "met" on tiktok

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could be Nigerian scammers

They go after adults they suspect have money. Predators go after kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Could be Nigerian scammers

They go after adults they suspect have money. Predators go after kids.

No, kids have money these days.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/michigan-teens-suicide-highlights-growing-dangers-online-sextortion/story?id=104038295

[Anonymous]

Weird that Grandpa is paying for her phone. And also that he knows about this situation. Boundaries, OP. The parents (YOU) should be paying for her phone and dealing with any problems that come with that. Your dad shouldn’t be involved in this at all. If you are low on money, he can pay you directly, if that is what you want to do. But you’re an adult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Could be Nigerian scammers

They go after adults they suspect have money. Predators go after kids.

Wrong the Nigerians have been known to extract nudes from minors and threaten to post them publicly

[Anonymous]

Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

[Anonymous]

Taking her phone at night is a good suggestion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

uhhh your daughter didnt get the message

[Anonymous]

OP, please stop with no secrets. Every teen has secrets.

The random guys are an issue and should e dealt with, but calling you a bitc$ on her texts is no big deal.

[Anonymous]

I cannot believe that on another thread I asked about a first phone for my 11 year old girl and how to lock it down, and someone actually replied that I should beware of being too controlling. And this is what happens if I would take that advice!

[Anonymous]

That would be the end of TikTok.

[Anonymous]

I would change her phone number ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Sick

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

Well here is the answer. Grandpa gave her the phone, pays for the phone, and now he wants to take the phone. So give the phone to Grandpa. Duh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

Sorry, this is bizarre. You should own the phone, and they should be on your plan. That is parenting 101. This allows you to control and monitor their phone through yours. Clearly you dropped the ball there. Grandpa can put money in their college fund. But you really need to be the one to own and control the phone yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, in regards to my dad paying for her phone. The phone was a gift from grandparents. The grandchildren are all on the grandparents cell phone plan. Not sure why that's a big deal, but that's how it is.

My family is close knit, this is how things have always been. There are no secrets and it was the same for me growing up.

Sorry, this is bizarre. You should own the phone, and they should be on your plan. That is parenting 101. This allows you to control and monitor their phone through yours. Clearly you dropped the ball there. Grandpa can put money in their college fund. But you really need to be the one to own and control the phone yourself.

Disagree. Based on the fact that she is even questioning what to do in this situation, she should probably relinquish *more* control over the raising of her kids to her Dad. He already knows the correct answer, here:

“My dad pays for her phone and wants to take it out of her possession.”