Somebody is lying. If this were true, there would be several hundred 300+ kids in 8th. In reality there is no more than two dozen. |
As a SMCS parent, I think this is wrong. First of all, parts of the county aren't even eligible for the Blair program. Second of all, plenty of smart kids choose RMIB, Wheaton Engineering, or another magnet program, or no magnet program at all. But even if we believe that OP's child is a "top 100" third grader, that still doesn't support grade skipping, and certainly not based on MAP, which is not even an intelligence test. |
Actually, it could be true. MAP measures exposure, not intelligence. It's not THAT hard for a 3rd grader to be exposed to and comprehend 5th grade math to the extent that they could perform on a standardized test. At that point, it's mostly a matter of rote memorization. It's much harder for an 8th grader to be exposed to and comprehend calculus. Moreover, we know from extensive studies that "giftedness" in early elementary is not necessarily a predictor of academic success down the road, since content is more coachable at that age. |
I agree, but it is a highly coveted program among top performing kids. I believe that almost of them apply, and some don't enroll (a small number - their yield is over 90%). If PP's child is "not exceptional" at SMCS they are likely top 25%. That leaves 75 slots for those other programs/base schools. |
| The only students that go to Blair are from downcounty or northeast consortium. |
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I would not skip. The one very smart kid I know who skipped a grade struggled in high school and ended up dropping out of college for a while. The social fit is important.
I'd focus on school as a platform for social learning for now, and supplement as you can at home with learning experiences and engaging academic (or not) hobbies. Sure, take advantage of the enrichment opportunities that are out there, but it is not the end of the world if your isn't reading high school level texts in his elementary school class. As others have said, school will become more challenging as your student gets older. For mine, it wasn't until high school that he really was adequately challenged academically, but high school has been great and I feel like he'll be well prepared for a good college and a happy, productive life (the end goal for us). We actually turned town magnet middle since the commute and loss of neighborhood community did not seem worth it. Four years later, we all still feel it was the right choice. |
| I feel like every person on DCUM has a kid that scores 99% on both MAP tests…seems suspicious to me. |
This is obviously a made up mocking post. |
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Do not skip.
That's a mistake you can't unmake unless you transfer to private. You can raise the bar for quality of writing you require for homework, and do free and paid enrichment math/c/science/literacy, do academic clubs at school, pursue arts and sports, and take advanced/AP classes in high school. |
GT is sometimes 2% and sometimes 15%. It depends on the menu of programs on offer. |
I'm sure there are some (lab and field scientists and engineers, not math/CS/theoretical physics computationalists), but > 270 have much higher admissions chance than <270. If math is your peak subject/hobby and your score is <270, not likely to admit |
| Bless your heart OP. |
| OP didn't reply regarding whether is alone in a low performing school or with a cohort in a high performing school. |
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Work with your kid on not being bored. My kid has similar scores and loves school / is not bored. His ability to read and interpret text and complete math problems are far ahead of his peers, he is 8, there is SO MUCH he doesn’t know. His class may be working on literacy and phonics, but he is learning about folk tales and ancient civilizations from the texts they are reading in class. The school librarian helped him find more books on the same topics they are covering in language arts and he is allowed to read those at his desk if he finishes his work early.
My other child is bright, but not as significantly ahead of grade level as his brother. However he is a know it all and frequently tells us at him “I know!” In an exasperated tone. We talk about this a lot because I don’t want him to be rude to a teacher or make his peers feel ashamed or behind. I tell him that while he may know how to solve a math problem, he may not know the method being taught and he should challenge himself to show his work and solve the same problem more than one way. Instead of being smug, we are working with him to make sure he is reading the whole question, showing his work, etc. My husband and I were both in gifted programs as kids and among the youngest kids in our grade. We don’t see any need to rush our kids in elementary just because they can technically meet grade level standards. We think it’s more important for our kids to learn good habits and have a deep and robust understanding of the concepts they are learning now since they are building blocks for more complex work to come. There is a difference between being precocious like my know it all older child and truly gifted like my younger one who seems to intuitively understand math concepts in a way that constantly amazes us. Tests reward the precocious and well behaved kids a lot and it’s easy for them to blaze through younger grades with tons of praise and then hit a wall when work gets hard. You need to work on growth mindset with those kids so they don’t develop a sense of self based on being “smart” and then fall apart when they eventually struggle. Truly gifted kids can find ways to go deeper and get more out of what they are learning in class - or you can help them find ways to entertain themselves without being disruptive. Very few kids are soooooo advanced that the need to skip a grade outweighs the social and emotional benefit of being with same age peers. |