Girlfriend disappearing on Fridays

[Anonymous]

OP, is there a reason you can’t kindly ask her why she ignores your communications on Fridays?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just freaking ask her. It’s a reasonable question. What makes it so hard for you?

+1. This is very obviously the solution

I also wouldn’t jump to cheating as the obvious answer. You guys don’t live together, it sounds like it would be pretty easy to cheat without completely ghosting one full day of every week.

Don’t jump to anything, ask her what she’s up to all Friday

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She works, then she goes to happy hour with friends and then goes to bed early and talk to you. Saturday.

And this is why we choose the bear

The bear is gay. he doesn't want you.

[Anonymous]

OP doesn't want to ask because he knows she's cheating and is afraid to face it.

She's not out chopping wood for a poor family with no electricity.

[Anonymous]

It's explained here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1230275.page

See the "once a week" comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sus. Takes nothing to send a text.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She works, then she goes to happy hour with friends and then goes to bed early and talk to you. Saturday.

And this is why we choose the bear

you have misunderstood the entire sentiment behind 'choose the bear'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP doesn't want to ask because he knows she's cheating and is afraid to face it.

She's not out chopping wood for a poor family with no electricity.

Surely the person she would be cheating with wouldn’t live off the grid to the extent that, when she visits for a full 24hrs each week, she can’t send a text to at least attempt to not be suspicious.

OP stop being silly and ask.

[Anonymous]

The fact that you were hanging out on Fridays and now you aren't....IDK. That's weird. I was so excited to hang out with my boyfriend after work on Fridays. Relax and just have fun. Definitely ask what's up.

[Anonymous]

Any update, OP? Did you two talk?

[Anonymous]

What does she tell you she is doing on Fridays?? When you see her on Saturdays, she must catch you up on what she’s been doing for the one night you’re apart right?

[Anonymous]

She needs to spend more time with family without you being around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP doesn't want to ask because he knows she's cheating and is afraid to face it.

She's not out chopping wood for a poor family with no electricity.

Surely the person she would be cheating with wouldn’t live off the grid to the extent that, when she visits for a full 24hrs each week, she can’t send a text to at least attempt to not be suspicious.

OP stop being silly and ask.

She doesn't want her other boyfriend to be suspicious.

[Anonymous]

Medical treatments. Therapy. Helping a friend with a private matter. Needing a day to herself. Needing a day to engage more with other important people in her life. Maybe she finds being fully available 6 days a week plenty for a boyfriend.

Try not contacting her at all on Fridays. Start making plans with other people more frequently on the weekend and other days.

[Anonymous]

Stop talking/texting her for a week.

If she doesn’t notice you may have an issue.

Like, she doesn’t give a crap about you issue.