I was dating a married man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you tell his wife, OP?

No I didn't. I found her Facebook, not sure if I mentioned that. But I think I'd rather just move on. I don't love the idea of putting her through that.

[Anonymous]

I am trying to understand this as a man and perhaps my logic is flawed. First am I incorrect to think that men are less likely to ask a married woman to leave her husband for him? What is it about some women that are comfortable breaking a marriage just because they are into the guy? Men are criticised a lot on this board and for good reasons. But these women that break marriages that's crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PS. I still flirt with my ex. HARD. He loves it. I bet all the people on here are outraged (heheh).

You think people give a sh*t about your post? Pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Many years ago I was unknowingly dating a married man until by accident I ran into him on a plane with a woman who was clearly his wife plus a child. I saw him first but I was able to go stoic when he saw me and his face dropped. I wish I had scratched my nose with my middle finger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Divorce is rejection. Cheating is cheating.

Rejection actually means…rejecting the other person. Until court docs are filed, you are still in the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Divorce is rejection. Cheating is cheating.

Rejection actually means…rejecting the other person. Until court docs are filed, you are still in the marriage.

Outcompeted the spouse? Ha. Hookers and whores? it’s sex. Period. And what kind of competition is it when your opponent doesn't even know they are in one? Women that go for married men have this very damaged psychologically. I guess see what happens when he’s caught? I’m going to guess he disposed of you like a used piece of toilet paper and throws you under the bus no contact.#winning

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s the big deal? Marriage is on the outs

May be but no woman with common sense and self respect want a cheating con artist and become a home wrecker.

[Anonymous]

I heard that you’re supposed to ask the person you’re dating if there’s anyone who feels that they are in a relationship with the person you’re dating. I hope that makes sense. It’s a way to reframe the question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s the big deal? Marriage is on the outs

I would not want that karma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PS. I still flirt with my ex. HARD. He loves it. I bet all the people on here are outraged (heheh).

You think people give a sh*t about your post? Pathetic.

You have sensitive emotions that seem like anger (name calling, swearing). People don’t like that. They like compliments and smiles and sexy legs. Short skirts work for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are a woman with strong values. You will be shocked but there are a lot of women if they are into the guy they will not only stay but pressure the guy to leave his wife for you.

100%

More sketchy whores with awful values in the world than decent women.

All the decent men with indecent women. Or is in the other way around?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s the big deal? Marriage is on the outs

I would not want that karma.

What about the second wives that marry the man and make him honest?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just like marriage, which is a contract. It is normally undone by a lawsuit (one spouse has to sue the other in court).

You can and should contract these things

Otherwise you let the state decide for you
Like probate. No one wants to go to probate.
Everyone is VA, for example, who shows up to work, should get a pre or post numpt

what, exactly, is a NUMPT? idiot.

[Anonymous]

Kanye, that you? We want prenump.
we want it pre bump!

[Anonymous]

I saw a friend get a postnuptial agreement. high earner.

She did it as a condition before therapy. She found it useful.