I was dating a married man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. I started seeing someone a month ago.
We met online I looked him up because he said something that felt off, and after going down a rabbit hole I found out he's married. We were never intimate. I blocked him on everything. I did nothing wrong but I feel like crap.

I’m curious, what did he say that felt “off?” This may be useful for other people.

He said that he had to get off the phone because his son and grandson were pulling up. He explained that his son needed him. He was now a single dad who worked overnight and He would watch his grandson overnight.

He didn't say I'll text you later, he couldn't talk until the next day. I remember thinking wow, he started as a really young grandad. I discovered through sleuthing that he also lied about his age by 10 years.

Grandpa was a player!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t feel bad. You did the right thing. He is the ahole.

+1

[Anonymous]

You are a woman with strong values. You will be shocked but there are a lot of women if they are into the guy they will not only stay but pressure the guy to leave his wife for you.

[Anonymous]

Refreshing a woman who didn't open her legs for a full month after dating a guy wow

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s the big deal? Marriage is on the outs

The big deal is that one of the people in the marriage may not be aware it's on the outs.

[Anonymous]

Duh. Usually one person has made up their bind. “marriage” is a property contract regulated and enforced by the state. that’s it.
It made sense for a while. Now it has little use.

Some spend more time on their colors and flowers than on their prenump. They are mislead.

[Anonymous]

By the time the person is out playing, they made up their mind. duh.

[Anonymous]

Wake up call to all you writing about and focused on morales and sex acts:

Get a clue.

Once a person has made up their mind to leave a voluntarily relationship, they can do that. Shaming does not keep someone in your bed. (Another clue).

This person communicated his situation to his date. That should actually be applauded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wake up call to all you writing about and focused on morales and sex acts:

Get a clue.

Once a person has made up their mind to leave a voluntarily relationship, they can do that. Shaming does not keep someone in your bed. (Another clue).

This person communicated his situation to his date. That should actually be applauded.

? What? They didn't leave the relationship. Cheating is the opposite of leaving a relationship.

[Anonymous]

No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Nobody out competed anybody. Grandpa wasn’t choosing between two women; he was enjoying both. Now OP has dumped him and he’s the loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Nobody outcompeted anyone. He just wanted to f…k two women. That’s all. Variety, one way or another is what men want. Treesomes, the wife&mistress etc.

[Anonymous]

I am currently dating one but I knew he was married. I am in love with him and he was honest from the start.

[Anonymous]

It happens. divorce is very complicated and costly these days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Nobody outcompeted anyone. He just wanted to f…k two women. That’s all. Variety, one way or another is what men want. Treesomes, the wife&mistress etc.

Interesting. I do think men are wired and socialized differently. Some like one woman. I was married and then was forcibly divorced from the union (long time marriage). I definitely lost the competition. My ex’s other lady is phenomenal! She has more wrinkles than I do bc of her skin type. But otherwise ….

Just a dose of reality.