I was dating a married man

[Anonymous]

PS. I still flirt with my ex. HARD. He loves it. I bet all the people on here are outraged (heheh).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s exactly leaving a relationship.

And it’s rejection. The other person outcompeted the spouse. How do you see it?

Nobody outcompeted anyone. He just wanted to f…k two women. That’s all. Variety, one way or another is what men want. Treesomes, the wife&mistress etc.

Interesting. I do think men are wired and socialized differently. Some like one woman. I was married and then was forcibly divorced from the union (long time marriage). I definitely lost the competition. My ex’s other lady is phenomenal! She has more wrinkles than I do bc of her skin type. But otherwise ….

Just a dose of reality.

My exH cheated on me, with much older woman and we divorced. He didn’t remarry, he’s still with her but dating younger women in parallel. He’s just not mono that’s all

[Anonymous]

Men, if you have or plan on accumulating wealth, get a prenup! I did.
Saved me.

Anonymous wrote:Duh. Usually one

person has made up their bind. “marriage” is a property contract regulated and enforced by the state. that’s it.
It made sense for a while. Now it has little use.

Some spend more time on their colors and flowers than on their prenump. They are mislead.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t feel bad. You did the right thing. He is the ahole.

+1

You did the right thing. You should not feel like crap though I know you feel betrayed and lied to because you were.

[Anonymous]

Modern dating sounds like a complete nightmare.

[Anonymous]

Happened to me once when I was single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Modern dating sounds like a complete nightmare.

Happened to me in 1993.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are a woman with strong values. You will be shocked but there are a lot of women if they are into the guy they will not only stay but pressure the guy to leave his wife for you.

100%

More sketchy whores with awful values in the world than decent women.

[Anonymous]

^ and OP- you aren't sketchy - he was! The other ho bragging about dating the married man is scum like the guy she’s “dating”.

[Anonymous]

Yep, happened to me in 1994. Unfortunately at that time there was no place to look people up, so consider yourself lucky.

[Anonymous]

You did the right thing by dumping him.

Next time do you our google rabbit hole search first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Men, if you have or plan on accumulating wealth, get a prenup! I did.
Saved me.


It’s smart for women too. It actually can lessen arguments around “child custody” You can put alimony on the prenup as well as the monthly child support. It is a contract.

[Anonymous]

Just like marriage, which is a contract. It is normally undone by a lawsuit (one spouse has to sue the other in court).

You can and should contract these things

Otherwise you let the state decide for you
Like probate. No one wants to go to probate.
Everyone is VA, for example, who shows up to work, should get a pre or post numpt

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am currently dating one but I knew he was married. I am in love with him and he was honest from the start.

Honest with you, but not with his wife! He'll lie to you someday, if he hasn't already.

[Anonymous]

Did you tell his wife, OP?