Should I hit the gym and work on myself before trying old?

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sad reading this. "men like this" "men want that". What about what YOU want? What about dating someone who likes YOU and not just your butt or skin or clothes?

There is nothing wrong with hitting the gym or buying new clothes. But do it because it makes YOU feel good, not because some man may like you better.

Right? And I find it repulsive that there are people (presumably men) on here counseling this woman what she needs to do to win their attention. YES, looks matter. YES, feeling good about yourself matters. But the person you are on the inside, the partner you want to be, etc. are more important. Looks fade and I'd be loathe to want to be with someone who cannot appreciate that and has some sort of "standard" for my looks.

Hey, the OP asked for opinions on how to gain male attention. And he will never know how great you are "on the inside" if you are a fat slob who dresses poorly.

And that fact is that fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside, because their appearance reflects their negative attitude and low self-esteem.

So much venom in this post. What happened to you to have this much hate in you?

Any accurate male observation about female behavior or psychology is invariably dismissed as “hate”.

This is a reminder that women do not actually want genuine male opinions, they just want their own opinions repeated back to them in a deeper voice.

I don't think "defective fat slob" qualifies as a genuine male opinion, troll.

"Don't be a defective fat slob" is a genuine male opinion because it is forthright, not sugar coated, and tells you exactly what men want.

In contrast, the previous blather along the lines of "forget about what men want, he should love the person on the inside even if you are fat and poorly dressed" is a typically female passive-aggressive effort to sabotage another woman and discourage her from doing what it takes to be attractive to men.

"fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside"
You can choose kindness, you know? You have the choice! The power!

I choose to tell the truth, which is the most powerful thing of all. Much more so than your lying "kindness".

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sad reading this. "men like this" "men want that". What about what YOU want? What about dating someone who likes YOU and not just your butt or skin or clothes?

There is nothing wrong with hitting the gym or buying new clothes. But do it because it makes YOU feel good, not because some man may like you better.

Right? And I find it repulsive that there are people (presumably men) on here counseling this woman what she needs to do to win their attention. YES, looks matter. YES, feeling good about yourself matters. But the person you are on the inside, the partner you want to be, etc. are more important. Looks fade and I'd be loathe to want to be with someone who cannot appreciate that and has some sort of "standard" for my looks.

Hey, the OP asked for opinions on how to gain male attention. And he will never know how great you are "on the inside" if you are a fat slob who dresses poorly.

And that fact is that fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside, because their appearance reflects their negative attitude and low self-esteem.

This is harsh, but somewhat true. I keep myself in shape and wear clothes which flatter my figure because I want to look and feel attractive. Thinking about being intimate with a man motivates me to keep up my efforts. I want to look good naked. I would feel self conscious and not into it if I were sloppy looking.

You do know that clothing doesnt make you look good naked right

Yes. That's what exercise and diet produces, dumbass.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel sad reading this. "men like this" "men want that". What about what YOU want? What about dating someone who likes YOU and not just your butt or skin or clothes?

There is nothing wrong with hitting the gym or buying new clothes. But do it because it makes YOU feel good, not because some man may like you better.

Right? And I find it repulsive that there are people (presumably men) on here counseling this woman what she needs to do to win their attention. YES, looks matter. YES, feeling good about yourself matters. But the person you are on the inside, the partner you want to be, etc. are more important. Looks fade and I'd be loathe to want to be with someone who cannot appreciate that and has some sort of "standard" for my looks.

Hey, the OP asked for opinions on how to gain male attention. And he will never know how great you are "on the inside" if you are a fat slob who dresses poorly.

And that fact is that fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside, because their appearance reflects their negative attitude and low self-esteem.

So much venom in this post. What happened to you to have this much hate in you?

Any accurate male observation about female behavior or psychology is invariably dismissed as “hate”.

This is a reminder that women do not actually want genuine male opinions, they just want their own opinions repeated back to them in a deeper voice.

I don't think "defective fat slob" qualifies as a genuine male opinion, troll.

"Don't be a defective fat slob" is a genuine male opinion because it is forthright, not sugar coated, and tells you exactly what men want.

In contrast, the previous blather along the lines of "forget about what men want, he should love the person on the inside even if you are fat and poorly dressed" is a typically female passive-aggressive effort to sabotage another woman and discourage her from doing what it takes to be attractive to men.

"fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside"
You can choose kindness, you know? You have the choice! The power!

I choose to tell the truth, which is the most powerful thing of all. Much more so than your lying "kindness".

Kindness isn't "lying" it's a different perspective.

Your not telling a "truth" your giving yours and in a brutal honesty sort of way. Which isn't a good look.

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I do believe that men are qualified to discuss what men want, even when we don't want to hear it. They like what they like. A man who looks like a 5 wants someone he perceives as a 7 or 8, not a 5.

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Anonymous wrote:I do believe that men are qualified to discuss what men want, even when we don't want to hear it. They like what they like. A man who looks like a 5 wants someone he perceives as a 7 or 8, not a 5.

Men are so delulu.