How do I confront DH?

[Anonymous]

Omg tell him you know about his dirty gf and kick him out.
Why anyone would put up with this?

[Anonymous]

Please go read at survivinginfidelity.com. Much better advice from people who have had similar experiences. You need to collect financial documents, move half of joint savings into a separate account, consult with a lawyer, have STI testing

You have to be willing to lose your marriage to save it, if that’s what you even decide you want. But you need to confront once prepared, then do the 180 (read about it). Any work to repair the marriage has to come from him - device transparency, a comprehensive timeline, reading “How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your affair” and “Not Just Friends.” Her husband also deserves to know the truth about his life and marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you want out of a confrontation?

Don’t do it until you know this and have consulted an attorney.

Even if you don’t want a divorce, he might.

Good luck.

Sadly agree.

You need to form a complete battle plan, not simply prepare for one confrontation.

[Anonymous]

i was in your shoes a few years ago and I thought I had all the proof in the world. I was so emotionally committed to his cheating that I couldn’t think and then it turned out he wasn’t. So,I’m now divorced. Be careful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i was in your shoes a few years ago and I thought I had all the proof in the world. I was so emotionally committed to his cheating that I couldn’t think and then it turned out he wasn’t. So,I’m now divorced. Be careful.

Intrigued. What made you think he was??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i was in your shoes a few years ago and I thought I had all the proof in the world. I was so emotionally committed to his cheating that I couldn’t think and then it turned out he wasn’t. So,I’m now divorced. Be careful.

Intrigued. What made you think he was??

OP is also intrigued. My proof is of the rapturous text message variety, plus viagra/cologne/wine wine opener in briefcase and GPS spoofing. And how do you know he wasn't?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

Lol

Man, you’re stupid.

[Anonymous]

Ok, well, moving on from the pet abuser concerns, I’m still interested in 14:11 and the non-cheating DH, if she’s around!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is why docs are suggesting even married women get the HPV vaccine now. If you're under 45 go get it now. Cheating, divorce, being widowed- many reasons why you can be exposed later.

+1. Just got it last year at 39.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i was in your shoes a few years ago and I thought I had all the proof in the world. I was so emotionally committed to his cheating that I couldn’t think and then it turned out he wasn’t. So,I’m now divorced. Be careful.

Intrigued. What made you think he was??

OP is also intrigued. My proof is of the rapturous text message variety, plus viagra/cologne/wine wine opener in briefcase and GPS spoofing. And how do you know he wasn't?

NP. Please say you took photos of all the above (since it sounds as if you haven't told him you saw these items in his briefcase--??). Because he may simply deny they were ever there, if you later say, I saw this stuff.....

Viagra. Wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

Lol

You need to stop showing your own stupidity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

Lol

+1 what a reach!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You lost me when bringing up the cat.

That only means you're an idiot. Pets are incredibly important to many people. They are the reason some people do not leave abusive marriages/relationships. They don't want to leave the animal with the abuser.

Lol

You need to stop showing your own stupidity.

Why are you so angry about a cat? 😂