Why are so many men suddenly approaching me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are a female dog in heat. The boy dogs are waiting their turn. Women hit their sexual peak at 40. If you’re married your husband will be happy.

Huh?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

You are a female dog in heat. The boy dogs are waiting their turn. Women hit their sexual peak at 40. If you’re married your husband will be happy.

Junk merchandise purveyors such as Temu sell devices that make the "breaking wind" noise.

Upon being accosted, reach into pocket or purse and click it. While looking guilty walk his way. Unless he is quite strange he'll light out for parts unknown.

[Anonymous]

Junk merchandise purveyors such as Temu sell gadgets that make the "broken wind" sound.

Upon being accosted, reach into your pocket or purse and click it. Look guilty.
Step to him. Unless he is very strange he'll light out for parts unknown.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I swear, please believe this IS NOT a humble brag, even though it sounds like one! I DO NOT appreciate this weird attention and don’t know what to do about it. I’m here because I want to know how to STOP it!

All of a sudden I’m noticing tons of unsolicited male attention, like out in public from strangers. They’ll get my attention somehow, like while I am in line at the store, places like that, and then make mundane conversation that always ends in a comment about my looks (“You have a pretty smile”, etc.) Or, a variation of cat calling, where random delivery drivers parked across the street where I am walking will wave at me.

I’m a 40yo F fwiw. I haven’t changed anything about myself or my demeanor, and in fact, most days I feel tired and exhausted and drab. Why are they singling me out? I mean, they are clearly going out of their way to get my attention. I’ve never experienced this before, or at least, not since my college years when I was young and cute!

But it’s sort of creepy? when these random men come up to me in public. I’m warring between appreciating the compliments to being annoyed they feel they have the right to comment on my body? Does this even make sense? Am
I insane?

It’s not just you. Highs have suddenly popped up to the 60’s and spring mating season is upon us. Everywhere I go, male birds are trying to mate. Humans are not immune.

This is how it feels! But why me, and most important, how can I get them to stop and leave ME alone?

Wear something that indicates that you are gay/lesbian.

DP curious to know what that would be?

Cargo shorts or pants with Birkenstocks. Any type of clothing with rainbows.
A shirt that says, “I’m not gay/lesbian but my husband/wife is.”

Good enough for you?

[Anonymous]

You might have become more approachable in very subtle ways that you don't notice, or you started paying more attention to what's going on around you and thus noticing the men approaching you. I wouldn't worry about. Ignore them, and if they get inappropriate raise your voice and tell them to f off.