Best Friend Pressuring Me To Invite Quasi Friend to My Wedding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your response to your best friend was perfect. Just leave it be.

Yes this.

[Anonymous]

I would keep the original friend on your list but be firm if she brings it up again. Just say “I don’t want her at my wedding.” Any boundaried person would not push again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your response to your best friend was perfect. Just leave it be.

Agree. And do not invite this quasi friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep. Jill is not getting an invite. And I would distance myself for your friend. She isn't much of a friend if she pressures you after you were not invited to Jill's wedding.

Ignore her.

Wow, one mistake from a best friend and you are ready to kick them to the curb?? FFS. She was thoughtless and rude, but that's it. She didn't do anything mean or harmful in any way. Have you never - ever done anything thoughtless? Think about it. OP should chalk it up to immaturity and let it go.

[Anonymous]

It was really tacky of her to go straight to Jill when she got the save the date, knowing you weren't close friends. Good job on your friend for making EVERYONE uncomfortable here.

It's common knowledge that weddings are expensive and often seating is limited. Whittling down a guest list to people you actually like is hard enough!

[Anonymous]

A perfectly acceptable response is simply "no" but, honestly, I'd wonder what her motive was. Seems very off.