DH addiction

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve never heard of a straight guy looking at transgender or gay porn.


I wouldn't necessarily make that assumption, but it may be that the guy is more like a 2 or 3 on the straight to gay spectrum. I say this as a guy - when a guy is looking at porn the lines on what are arousing get very blurred. When you are poking around on porn sites, things that normally wouldn't turn you on at all become fair game. And things that you would never want to do in real life can still provide "interest", shall we say. I mean, the amount of fake incest porn is out of control. "Post-nut clarity" is a real thing.


The guy is looking at “fat women” as well as gay open so he’s obviously bisexual. Completely gay men aren’t looking at any women in porn. A lot more people are bisexual than ever admit to it.


Honestly I don’t even think his bisexual. His dopamine needs are pushing toward all kind of porn. This is the same effect drugs have on the body. People who end naked on the street from a PCP high probably started with less potent drugs.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve never heard of a straight guy looking at transgender or gay porn.


I wouldn't necessarily make that assumption, but it may be that the guy is more like a 2 or 3 on the straight to gay spectrum. I say this as a guy - when a guy is looking at porn the lines on what are arousing get very blurred. When you are poking around on porn sites, things that normally wouldn't turn you on at all become fair game. And things that you would never want to do in real life can still provide "interest", shall we say. I mean, the amount of fake incest porn is out of control. "Post-nut clarity" is a real thing.


99.9% of straight men will get excited if a Transgender women looks 100% female with her boobs and butt done and if she had facial surgery. Straight men keep a lot of their fetishes/secrets behind closed doors.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DH has a porn addiction. Since COVID, our sex life has been non existent yet DH has been consuming porn almost on a daily basis. This started after he was laid off from his job and became depressed as a result. On his computer I found that he is has been looking at all kind of porn, gay, transgender and fat women porn. Every time we try to have sex he fails to be aroused and doesn’t seem all that exited to have actual real sex. Is his lack of arousal caused by his porn consumption? I don’t think porn can change your sexual orientation. If he stops will our self life returns to normal. I am 39 and he is 45. He will try to stop on his own, if not we may have to look for help for his addiction. He doesn’t consume alcohol or do drugs.


Good for him, let him enjoy himself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why are so many men turning while they have willing wives ready to be railed??


Because these wives denied sex for years, specially after the kids were born, etc.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why are so many men turning while they have willing wives ready to be railed??


+10000 makes no sense!!! MEN try touching YOUR WIVES.


Haha. Have you read these forums? Wives are all touched out and suffering mental loads and emotional labor whatnot. They don't want to be touched anyway.


Yes, this
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Buy a $trapon. When he gets into bed, walk into the bedroom wearing your $trapon. Should fulfill his trans fantasy.


That actually may work. It could spice up your sex life and get him off porn.

One time my wife suggested that as a role play. The look I gave her made her quickly change the topic.

However in OP’s case it could be a solution. Be “sex positive”!


NP. I would happily divorce before ever sinking to such low levels.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Buy a $trapon. When he gets into bed, walk into the bedroom wearing your $trapon. Should fulfill his trans fantasy.


That actually may work. It could spice up your sex life and get him off porn.

One time my wife suggested that as a role play. The look I gave her made her quickly change the topic.

However in OP’s case it could be a solution. Be “sex positive”!


NP. I would happily divorce before ever sinking to such low levels.

You might end up liking it…
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve never heard of a straight guy looking at transgender or gay porn.


I wouldn't necessarily make that assumption, but it may be that the guy is more like a 2 or 3 on the straight to gay spectrum. I say this as a guy - when a guy is looking at porn the lines on what are arousing get very blurred. When you are poking around on porn sites, things that normally wouldn't turn you on at all become fair game. And things that you would never want to do in real life can still provide "interest", shall we say. I mean, the amount of fake incest porn is out of control. "Post-nut clarity" is a real thing.


99.9% of straight men will get excited if a Transgender women looks 100% female with her boobs and butt done and if she had facial surgery. Straight men keep a lot of their fetishes/secrets behind closed doors.


More than a few trans women don’t actually need as much surgery as you’d think they would. Hormones do a lot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve never heard of a straight guy looking at transgender or gay porn.


I wouldn't necessarily make that assumption, but it may be that the guy is more like a 2 or 3 on the straight to gay spectrum. I say this as a guy - when a guy is looking at porn the lines on what are arousing get very blurred. When you are poking around on porn sites, things that normally wouldn't turn you on at all become fair game. And things that you would never want to do in real life can still provide "interest", shall we say. I mean, the amount of fake incest porn is out of control. "Post-nut clarity" is a real thing.


99.9% of straight men will get excited if a Transgender women looks 100% female with her boobs and butt done and if she had facial surgery. Straight men keep a lot of their fetishes/secrets behind closed doors.


More than a few trans women don’t actually need as much surgery as you’d think they would. Hormones do a lot.

You would be surprised how many beautiful trans women are out there and still have their male plumbing.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve never heard of a straight guy looking at transgender or gay porn.


I wouldn't necessarily make that assumption, but it may be that the guy is more like a 2 or 3 on the straight to gay spectrum. I say this as a guy - when a guy is looking at porn the lines on what are arousing get very blurred. When you are poking around on porn sites, things that normally wouldn't turn you on at all become fair game. And things that you would never want to do in real life can still provide "interest", shall we say. I mean, the amount of fake incest porn is out of control. "Post-nut clarity" is a real thing.


99.9% of straight men will get excited if a Transgender women looks 100% female with her boobs and butt done and if she had facial surgery. Straight men keep a lot of their fetishes/secrets behind closed doors.


More than a few trans women don’t actually need as much surgery as you’d think they would. Hormones do a lot.

You would be surprised how many beautiful trans women are out there and still have their male plumbing.


Most people can’t afford the three months off of work required for that surgery. Not to mention actually getting it paid for somehow.
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