What age do *you* find most attractive? And why

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok, I’ll be that guy. Cus most of you are either lying or delusional.

Women peak physically at 17-22.

99 women out of 100 look their best in that range… in great shape, clear skin, soft hair, everything is high and tight.

I don’t get the professed preferences here for wrinkles, sag, C section scars, etc. Older women with those attributes are often better in bed, so maybe if you’re factoring that in. But just pure physical attractiveness? No contest.

So you are sexually attracted to high school seniors still?

That is so “American Beauty” creepy. Please don’t tell me you have children.

You and Woody Allen would have a lot to talk about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women in their 20’s, men in their 40’s.

Sounds like men get to be judged by more than their bodies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women in their 20’s, men in their 40’s.

Sounds like men get to be judged by more than their bodies.

Or men get kudos where women get criticism - light gray hair, laugh lines
; etc

[Anonymous]

For me personally it’s now in my early 40’s. In my 20’s I was so young looking, to the detriment of my career, that no way could I look hot. In my 30’s I spent a lot of the time pregnant. In my late 30’s I really got into fitness and I developed a sense of style I didn’t have before. Now I’m very fit and look mid 30ish and my husband is very attentive. But it sure took a long time to get here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok, I’ll be that guy. Cus most of you are either lying or delusional.

Women peak physically at 17-22.

99 women out of 100 look their best in that range… in great shape, clear skin, soft hair, everything is high and tight.

I don’t get the professed preferences here for wrinkles, sag, C section scars, etc. Older women with those attributes are often better in bed, so maybe if you’re factoring that in. But just pure physical attractiveness? No contest.

So you are sexually attracted to high school seniors still?

That is so “American Beauty” creepy. Please don’t tell me you have children.

You and Woody Allen would have a lot to talk about.

Be realistic. Many men of all ages find 17 and 18 year old females attractive. Many of us have plenty of self control because we don't want to harm anyone or ruin our lives.

[Anonymous]

For me what makes women attractive is a lot more than just the physical which can peak in their late 20s and early 30s. But intelligence, maturity, and confidence take longer to develop so I think the peak is in the early 40s or even later. Even after that peak these women can remain hot for a long time.

[Anonymous]

My 33 yr old SIL would make me switch teams in a second!

[Anonymous]

I didn’t think men past 40 could be so sexy. I was introduced to a 46 years old African American male OMG he was gorgeous. He was tall, thin but not skinny, well defined muscles, great skin and very good looking. My ex husband who is 35 looks like he is 50, he is fat and just doesn’t care about his appearance at all.

[Anonymous]

Once the skin looses its elasticity it’s downhill from there…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agree about fit women in their 40’s

Disagree about men 28-32. Most at this age are one of three types:

1) Losers still clinging to the single undergrad years lifestyle with lots of booze and video gaming and non-commital dating.

2) new dads of toddlers who are sweet and devoted but have let themselves go physically because of being a dad taking precedent over staying fit.

3) career obsessed and super driven, with no time for a serious relationship. Lots of mid-level military officers or junior law partners in this category. They have time to **** you a few times a month, but that’s all they can spare you.


#2’s are the best, if you’re lucky enough to be married to one and they don’t let themselves go too far out of shape before 40, because once the kid(s) are over 10-12, these guys tend to try and get fit again, and usually do. Then they’re a prize. If you didn’t marry one and you’re still single, there’s plenty like this who divorce because their marriages fall apart because the wife has let herself go.


But the whole guys 28-32 thing is just dead wrong. Let them get into their 40’s or early 50’s. If they’re still in shape then…. Yum.

A good man’s marriage does not fall apart because his wife has “let herself go.”

Agree. Of these categories I’m definitely a #2 and DW gained literally a hundred pounds. Never had any thought of divorce.

[Anonymous]

There was an interesting poll done on this where men of any age picked 21-22 for women, and women tended to choose someone closer to their age.

As a guy, this tracks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There was an interesting poll done on this where men of any age picked 21-22 for women, and women tended to choose someone closer to their age.

As a guy, this tracks.

+1

Yes, but it’s not at ALL who I actually want to spend time with.

[Anonymous]

26-36 men

[Anonymous]

I’m a 50s M VHNW and i find mid 40s women most attractive…….

sikeeeeeee

[Anonymous]

It’s not about age, it’s about so many other things. A 34 year old physically hot guy with the brain of a potato pales in comparison to a fit 50 year old with brains, ambition and warmth.