What age do *you* find most attractive? And why

[Anonymous]

I’m 42 and have always had a thing for older men - like 10+ years older.

Even though men around my age and younger generally tend to be more attractive and in better shape I usually find them to be too immature. I know these are wild generalizations but speaking from my own personal experience. I know that’s not always the case.

[Anonymous]

42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

[Anonymous]

Women in their 20’s, men in their 40’s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some gray hair and laugh lines are very attractive on a man.

+1. I don't know what it is about gray hair at the temples...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men can be sexy until age 55.

After that it’s all downhill from there.

Sure like any + all generalizations there is always an exception to the rule - but most men just look like 👴🏿 Grandfathers after 55.
Except a select few.

Will Smith, Dr. Dre, Eddie Murphy.

The old saying, black don’t crack.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person. Most women look better when younger because that's when it's easiest and takes less effort. As people age, keeping the weight off is more complicated, and many just give up. For those who don't give up, I think looking great into the mid-50s is doable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I have seen this answer on DCUM more than once. What’s with the sag and muffin top being a turn on? I don’t get it.

Asking as a healthy BMI slightly saggy muffiny 41 year old mom.

[Anonymous]

Ok, I’ll be that guy. Cus most of you are either lying or delusional.

Women peak physically at 17-22.

99 women out of 100 look their best in that range… in great shape, clear skin, soft hair, everything is high and tight.

I don’t get the professed preferences here for wrinkles, sag, C section scars, etc. Older women with those attributes are often better in bed, so maybe if you’re factoring that in. But just pure physical attractiveness? No contest.

[Anonymous]

It depends on how well one takes care of themselves and how they naturally age. I find women who are naturally attractive and take care of their bodies and looks to be more most attractive 37-43. Their bodies are fuller and more feminine, they walk with confidence, and their wisdom is a turn on.

[Anonymous]

My husband when he was about 45. Very fit, a little gray hair, career going great and he could wear me out in bed. He’s in his early 50s now and still going strong but 45 was awesome.

[Anonymous]

Physically my wife was at her best in her early 30s before having three big babies in four years. But, as soon as we became empty nesters in her early 50s her libido exploded. Those were the fun years!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok, I’ll be that guy. Cus most of you are either lying or delusional.

Women peak physically at 17-22.

99 women out of 100 look their best in that range… in great shape, clear skin, soft hair, everything is high and tight.

I don’t get the professed preferences here for wrinkles, sag, C section scars, etc. Older women with those attributes are often better in bed, so maybe if you’re factoring that in. But just pure physical attractiveness? No contest.

Nope. I definitely looked better at 40 than I did at 21. In way better shape, better diet, better personal style, more confidence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men can be sexy until age 55.

After that it’s all downhill from there.

Sure like any + all generalizations there is always an exception to the rule - but most men just look like 👴🏿 Grandfathers after 55.
Except a select few.

Will Smith, Dr. Dre, Eddie Murphy.

Don't forget the white guys Brad Pitt, George Clooney etc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I have seen this answer on DCUM more than once. What’s with the sag and muffin top being a turn on? I don’t get it.

Asking as a healthy BMI slightly saggy muffiny 41 year old mom.

For me they’re not a turn on, but they’re not a turn off.

I have a bit of a dad bod so women who aren’t toned seem more attainable to me.

I’m 41. We should hang.

[Anonymous]

Hate the gym rats, posting their abs on Instagram. They seem SO superficial and self absorbed.

Give me a 28-34 year old who likes hiking and wears flannel shirts with jeans on the weekend.

Yes please.